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The older i get the worse the feeling of desperation and loneliness is affecting me. I have posted before on here about the same thing, But it really keeps bothering me. I have a problem with connecting with people, always have. Never been able to fit in, even if i was completely welcome...

Can anyone explain to me how people who break all the rules, get married, have kids, have a lot of things in their lives. Then there are people who follow the rules, are responsible, caring, and helpful get shafted, blamed and shamed for their mistakes, and have to fight years and years of...

Well you're right, I am bitter, but its more than that too... 4

And why not.. I feel like I am. If i wasn't i wouldn't have all these problems with intimacy, mental health problems, among other problems. Tell me why i haven't had a girlfriend, or why I am like why i am. I can't, so it has to be the most simple answer.

Maybe because I am a toxic person LOL.. but yeah..

As much as I really dislike Feb 14, its not fair to blast everyone that is happy and in a great relationship in the bitterness of Feb 14. I wish everyone who is fortunate enough to be with someone, or even those who are single and feeling hopeless, Happy Valentines Day!

Another day yeah i suppose.. Just brings back a lot of memories of not getting any valentines day cards or flowers in school lol..

I am going to get drunk on Valentines day, just knowing that being alone for 30 Valentines Days I can only get through by sleeping and or Drinking till I am good and plastered..

I've heard the same thing for over 20 years, you try and forget about it, but it keeps coming back. As to why its been like this for me, your guess is as good as mine. I haven't been perfect, but I have followed all the rules, been polite, tried to be a good human being, but it appears the...

There is a difference between Endured and being trampled and run over. Sure, everyone goes through rough patches. But when all you know is constantly dealing with rough times in your life, you know nothing different. It makes people feel hopeless. I feel that way, I don't know what its like...

Its been all bitch slaps for me, punches in the gut, I haven't seen any beauty in life thus far...

Everything about life is bullshit, dating, people, finding happiness, all Bullshit. We are all programmed to believe that we have to fit into certain norms to be popular, successful, happy, etc.. People equate money and looks to love and marriage. I am through being someone who should fit...

Way too late to change my mind, been dealing with this for 20 years without any significant help or progress, Another 30 years isn't going to make a difference. Damage has been done for me. I don't trust, I've become very paranoid, lack of self esteem and confidence. A good analogy is that...

Everyone is talking about Sex, apparently lots of people have had it on here What is it like?

Lost that belief a long time ago. Being positive for me is a character flaw for me. Whenever I am positive and happy it puts me into denial about how life really is. When people say to look positive towards life and good things will come to people who have good attitudes, really haven't been...

I hear ya, If it wasn't for my family i wouldn't be here... I'm trying to live the best i can right now its so difficult at the best of times... :(

I have been constantly told that i am coming across as desperate when trying to find someone. Common suggestions i have been told over the years are: Find a Hobby Go to Church Go Back to School Go to the Bar Try online dating Go Drinking Well the problem with many of those, is that...

I can't live with myself most days. I just grin and bear it. The only thing keeping me from going over is my family. Other than that, nothing else matters, or I really don't have anything else to survive for. I'm just saying I really don't have anything to live for, just idling by seems to...

It is, and quite cruel

Or you don't know any of the signs of interest even if they are slapping you in the face... that would be me.