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    What do you look for in a boyfriend/girlfriend?

    Just interested in seeing what people look for. :)
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    Pet Peeves & OCD

    Do you think they are connected? Are pet peeves enhanced because of OCD? What are your pet peeves? Even if you don't have OCD and have pet peeves, share them.. and the extent to which they bother you.. it would be interesting to see if there is a correlation.. Or.. If you have OCD and don't...
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    I found a good OCD forum..

    It also has an anxiety section, but it's mainly for OCD I think. www.stuckinadoorway.org
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    I LOVE THE BROKEN CHAT!

    Hi. :) I love it, and its brokeness. <3
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    What kind of OCD are you suffering from?? :/

    I realize now, after checking out some other forums, that I have Pure-O. They are HOCD, POCD, and ROCD. zzz. Does anyone else suffer from these? It's so stressful, cause no matter who I am around, I'm having some kind of problem with the ocd.. It makes having any sort of relationship very...
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    Grr! I'm frustrated! (ocd+career??)

    HEY! As maybe some of you know... I have mild ocd, in the form of obsessive thinking/intrusive thoughts... revolving mostly around sexual 'things'. ANYWAY! One of the obsessions, is the fear of being a pedophile.. woo *sigh*. The thing here is.. I am interested in helping troubled youth...
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    Come chat? :)

    Come? :)
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    These forums are a big help.. (come hither!)

    In treating my social anxiety, and ocd. :) Also, I posted a topic in OFF TOPIC, cause I want to make my own healthy forum, go to it, to give some tips? IN OFF TOPIC! Thanks! :)
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    I'm making a forum.. come hither! :)

    P.S. I'm not advertising or linking it, so I don't think this thread deserves to be dumped, if anyone decides so. I just want to make my own forum, and would like tips from people who regularly visit a social anxiety forum. :) I'd like some input.. Is there any specific "forum" title anyone...
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    I hate when guys like me, and I don't like them back...

    It makes me feel all anxious and retarded, and I don't know how to talk to them anymore. And it's so hard to just say.. DUDE.. JUST FRIENDS. JUUUUUUUST FRIENDS(because you don't know for sure, their intention and you don't want to assume anything). And even then, they don't take the hint. And...
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    unidentified people

    Did you post this to make us feel comfortable? Or was your intention to make some of us feel anxiety, because that's what you did. Good job. :wink:
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    Let's do the wave... lol

    So, my social anxiety comes in waves. I'll have a wave of good days(I can talk to anyone about anything, anytime and not feel awkward), a wave of okay days(slightly awkward) and then a wave of bad days(completely awkward, I avoid people and making conversation with them, cause I have no idea...
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    Uhh.. Living on my own...

    :? I just moved out on my own. Annnnd I feel bad. I sit here, alone. zzz. And then when I go out, I look like a grumpy little bitch, because I feel so nervous. And I get angry at myself because I can't approach people, or smile at them. It's the worst with guys that I find attractive, I totally...
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    Social Anxiety and Relationships

    I've mentioned before, and I've noticed others mention the difficulty they have when trying to have a bf/gf relationship with someone. I was just wondering, what happens to you when you get in a relationship? How does it start? How does it end? Who usually ends it? Why(what are some of your...
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    I think my mom has SAD...

    But she won't admit it to anyone. And she acts like she's fine. But we all know she's not. And we don't know how to approach her about it, cause she won't admit to anything, and she always gets all upset, emotional and leaves when the conversation gets too close to the bone. What should I do?
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    Let's Write Journals! :)

    So I have this idea. It can be a thing where we all help each other stick to it. If anyone is interested, we should all write journals and then share little bits and pieces of them, here. It can be daily, or weekly, or wheneverly. I am doing a daily journal, just so I can gauge when and how...
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    AhhA! I'm destined to be single!

    For a long ass time! :) Why you might ask? Or you might not, but I'll say it anyway, cause I want to vent. 1. I'm too shy 2. I'm too worried about holding a conversation 3. I need the guy to be an excellent conversationalist 4. I get all weirded out a month into the relationship 5. I'm too...
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    I'm backity back!

    HOLA! lol (that's so out of character, random day). Anywho! I'm back. I was here earlier in the year, but I left, whence I started working full-time and my anxietyness dissipated.. But ALAS!!!! IT HAS RETURNED! (not like it was ever truly gone) Calloo Callay! :)
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    What is social anxiety... Really?

    If any of you are anything like me. I'm sure you've analyzed the shit out of your anxiety problem. So, what have you concluded about your social anxiety? I've concluded that.. I have a low self-esteem I have low confidence I think negative about almost all social situations I fear any contact...
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    Screw the meds! Screw the doctors!

    Has anyone taken this approach? Pure self-help? Perhaps the occasional discussion with a psychologist.. ALSO! How long have you had social anxiety? And how debilitating is it for you? **P.S. I don't know if this should be in the treatment section. It's just some general questions aboot social...
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