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    Post what you cannot say

    I very much want to love you and "honor" you, but you make it so damn hard. I worry about you, almost incessantly. I wish you would take care of yourself. It pains me to be around you, even more than it irritates me to listen to your extremist monologuing. Why is everything a worst case...
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    Taking His Name

    Since we're talking about weddings and marriage here on the forum, I'd like to ask: How do you feel about a woman taking a man's name when they are married? Men, do you prefer it? Women, do you think it is old-fashioned, or a traditional part of the union? What are your thoughts, pro or con?
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    What Makes You Interesting?

    What makes you an interesting person? Not necessarily interesting to others, but what makes you unique? What are your life experiences, hobbies, and interests?
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    What are you thankful for?

    Yeah, Thanksgiving in the States is fast approaching, and most people are thinking about what they want for Christmas, not what they are grateful for already having. :) So, what are you thankful for?
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    If you were an ice cream flavor...

    What would you be? Why? I was obsessing over this last night when I couldn't get to sleep, and I'm just curious to see everyone's answers, lol. Me, I'd be butter pecan. It's like a slightly more exciting version of vanilla. It has a consistent, reliable flavor that most people haven't even...
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    Your Non-fictitious Crush

    Singers, actors, comedians, professors, supermodels, writers, famous or not....who is your crush? Pics or descriptions please... :)
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    Slumber Party? OMG Srsly wtf?

    Soooo, the girls that I work with are planning a slumber party---AT the animal shelter. Yes, they want to invite the whole staff and apparently the public too, to sleep with them in the halls, in the lobby, even in the free-roaming cat rooms. My first inclination was to say, Um, NO, I have to be...
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    Your Perfect Hangout

    If you could hang out with cool people doing something you really enjoy, what would it be? Personally, I'd really enjoy a night at home with maybe two other couples, eating pizza, watching movies, and playing board games. Or, hanging out with cool people hiking and backpacking, sitting around...
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    Love Me or Go Away

    Sometimes I feel such a strong need to be liked, that I feel like anyone who does not dote on me must be pushed out of my life as far as possible. Does anyone else do this? I don't know if it is a social anxiety thing, or a borderline personality thing, or just plain low self esteem. I know it...
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    Things That Are Overrated

    Girl Scout Cookies Kittens Wealth God/Religion Partying Mayonnaise Feel free to challenge me on any of these. ::p:
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    How I Plan To Beat SA

    ...or I should rather say: how I plan to accept who I am and live with SA. Because I know I will never be the outgoing, popular one. I will never have a lot of friends because I don't want any more friends than I already have. I love my quiet lifestyle and all I want is to feel comfortable...
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    Why I Am Invisible

    1. My partner and I are buying a house next week. People on Facebook keep congratulating HIM and not saying ANYTHING to me, and I'm starting to feel like they don't give a crap if I am going to be living there with him or not. *poof* I'm invisible :mad: 2. I make a big effort to help out with a...
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    Christmas Decisions

    I have a little dilemma, and I'm not sure how to go about solving it. Let me start by saying that last Christmas was the absolute worst of my entire life. My partner and I had been together for almost a year, but this was our first Christmas together. As such, I was excited to go home with him...
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    Would you rather have lunch with a stranger or with an acquaintance?

    I'd much rather have lunch with a complete stranger. I feel too much pressure around people who (I feel) expect certain behaviors out of me, as an acquaintance would (at least in my mind).
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    What's the most awesome thing you've ever done?

    I don't care if it's skydiving or knitting a scarf---I want to know about some of the cool things you all have done. There is so much variety here, I love it.
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    What Do You Want To Accomplish?

    Reading these threads as a newcomer, I've noticed that we all seem to have different goals or wishes pertaining to our social anxiety...some of us want friends, some of us want romantic partners, some of us want to wake up in the morning without dreading having to go to work and see other...
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    Hi, New Here!

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