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  1. Pacific_Loner

    Post your random thoughts/feelings etc

    What's wrong with metric? (And how is it a hand grenade?)
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    Social Anxiety Memes

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    Travelling

    As everyone said it's not unusual to get lost in an foreign airport. Even at the local airport. That is why there is information stands and signs everywhere. So it's not like you're stupid because you're confused at the airport. If you don't travel often by yourself, SA or not, you are going to...
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    Guys a question for you

    Are these official posters from the City authorities or is it just provokative people who put them there? (I still refuse to believe it's a real thing lol)
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    How much has rational-thinking strategies worked for you?

    What helped me personally is understanding how my brain works, how the way I was raised have an impact on what I am and how I perceive myself today, so that when I tell myself that I am worthless, ugly, retarded, etc., I can pause and remind myself why I have this low opinion of myself, and how...
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    Guys a question for you

    Yeah that's not what I meant, I was just making a joke. From my experience the ability of explaining something clearly and concisely has nothing to do with gender. Some have it and some don't. I did not believe you so I googled it. It appears that those people were basically arrested because...
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    Alienssss

    "I'd say if it is just us, it seems like an awful waste of space."
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    Guys a question for you

    Thanks for mansplaining everything to me Molly :) Just Kidding. I've never heard about manspreading. Is this really a thing? I'm having trouble believing they would actually try to make a sitting position illegal. It sounds completely absurd.
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    Guys a question for you

    I'm not sure I understand, but english is not my first language. (Also I'm not sure if you mean "guys" as in "males" or "people"). Anyway according to google translate, mansplaining is a word to describe when men explain things to women in a paternalist way? So I don't get the link with how men...
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    How much has rational-thinking strategies worked for you?

    Could you elaborate on that method? Do you mean for example, when you're constantly telling yourself that you're worthless, instead you start thinking "objectively speaking, I'm worth as much as anyone else, etc."?
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    Hi everyone, talk to me!

    Yes, I'm sorry if it sounded condescending to you Lily, what I meant is it's starting to be worrisome because you sound very unhappy and anxious right now. So I was trying to suggest things that you could do to entertain yourself, meet new people, and let go of this banning thing because it...
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    Hi everyone, talk to me!

    Lily, you sound desperately lonely. Is there something you could do to meet new people out there? Dog park? Art classes? Volunteering? Religious group? (I personnally find that sport is an excellent way to meet new people without being stuck hanging out with them purposelessely)
  13. Pacific_Loner

    Post your random thoughts/feelings etc

    Sometimes when everything seems too complicated, it's better to let go of the steering wheel and just wait to see what happens
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    How SPW site has made me feel...

    Thanks, I'm sorry about your loneliness, it doesn't sound like you enjoy it. I hope things will get better for you
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    How are you feeling?

    I sometimes say "if it's good enough for you, it's good enough", but I like your choice of words better
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    How SPW site has made me feel...

    Same here. I often don't reply because it's people who never talked to me (which is pretty stupid when you think about it). Sometimes I type an answer but then I delete it because I'm wondering who I think I am to give anyone any advice. Sometimes I post something unrelated to anyone and then I...
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    Name 5 things you're afraid of

    It doesn't scare me but I agree this is an annoyance. 1- Sharks 2- Lost containers at sea 3- Networking 4- Realizing on my death bed that I did everything completely wrong 5- Hearing "hey guys we just found the way to travel back in time!" when I'm about to die
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    Post your random thoughts/feelings etc

    Well that sounds like the best plan ever.
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