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    Intending to start running to lose some weight

    I've built up some excess weight around my belly and thighs that I want to get rid of as some part of a vague NYR. And also to see if it helps lighten the load in my mind that's filled with depression, stress, SA. I can't afford the gym so intend to run/jog to help me lose it. I want to bulk up...
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    Emotional Freedom Technique

    I came across this social anxiety overcoming technique on this video: The Social Confidence System Works- Social Anxiety Solutions (7/7) - YouTube It's the first I've heard of it as an exercise to overcome SA, anyone tried it or heard of any positive or negatives to it?
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    How do you handle confrontation or stern vocal criticism?

    Recently, as posted in this thread, I left my job due to unhappiness with a whole number of things. I live with my family and news travels fast. I'm always expected to do something, i.e. bring in money and be active etc. I've told a few family members of my decision to leave my job - both...
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    Always conscious of other people's opinions, especially immediate family?

    I've found as I've grown older that I tend to be really hesitant, afraid to an extent to do a task, bring news to the rest of my immediate family because I tend to be worried that they'll criticise me publicly in front of other family members, or they'll mock me privately for me doing something...
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    Whose confidence would you love to have yourself?

    Which other people in your life or even celebrities, sports stars etc do you look at and think: "Man, I wish I had his confidence and acquire the ease with which he/she does thing". One of my brothers is the complete opposite of me, confident, unfearful and strolls into a room like he owns it...
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    Speaking to a doctor about depression...

    About a month or two ago, I decided to visit my doctor regarding the depression that I had been consumed by for ages. She discussed options - medical or counselling. I went for the latter. It was only recently that I got a letter asking to meet a psychological practitioner? I'm assuming it...
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    Here comes my story at the moment

    I'm writing this as I've suffered another setback in life - due to my own personal weaknesses and social phobia - and I'm back to square one. Today I left my job (working in a call centre) because I've had time off for depression, and my phobia has rendered me useless and lazy to try and...
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    Greetings to all!

    Greetings all! After 26 years, I've realised in the year or so that I am and have been suffering from Social Phobia for so many years and not realised there was a name for it! It's getting to the point where I so badly want to do something about but lack the assertiveness to do it. I was...
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