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I was just wondering how those of you who are in relationships deal with it. Does having social anxiety not affect your relationship?

Most people probably wouldn't understand, but if I didn't have to work, I know I would be a happy man. Work makes my life hell on a daily basis. I wish I could withdraw from society altogether, that's my biggest dream. Anyone else feel the same? (probably not)

We had guests today. As usual I was frequently ignored even though I tried my best to be as chatty and friendly as possible. I smiled etc.. all in vain. People just ignore me even children. I'm a 32 year old adult for God's Sake, but nobody respects me. This makes me so depressed. I guess the...

In the future I intend to migrate to some country where the cost of living is MUCH lower than in the developed world. Of course I'll have to work and save lots of money first. I want to "retire" at age 45. Since I'm originally from Turkey (but living in the Netherlands), this country may be the...

Exercise worsens my anxiety, why is that?

I can barely hold down a job, I'm tired all the time. I've been suffering from anxiety all my life, but when I was younger at least I wasn't depressed. I feel like the best part of my life is over. Unlike most other people I have very little positive memories in life. It seems that I will be...

I have been told that I'm too slow at work today. Because I'm still new it's not a problem yet, but I knew this was going to happen. I'm very depressed and I'm awake half the night (I have insomnia). How do I deal with this? I know I can't work fast and this is not going to change. What if I'm...

I did the test and got 37 points, which means that I may have Asperger Syndrome or high-functioning autism! Do the test and post your result: Autism Spectrum Quotient

At work this has happened several times, we were sitting at a table eating together and people just didn't listen to what I said and ignored me. I know it's because I felt depressed and very anxious, but it still hurts.

Does melatonin really work? Unlike in the US, here in the Netherlands you need a prescription to get melatonine. Does it really work? I have terrible insomnia. I really hope I get some replies as this is of utmost importance to me. Thanks in advance.

Do you think it's possible to be happy, if you have zero friends and no human contact, except at work and maybe at a fitness club or something. Is it possible to keep functioning at work (without falling into deep depression) when you're completely alone all the time?

The other thread inspired me to ask this question..... As to me, I can't multitask to save my life. I find it incredibly difficult to concentrate on more than one thing at a time, or like Lea said in the other thread, switching attention from one thing to another. Sometimes it even affects me...

Do you have difficulties with nonverbal communication such as facial expressions? When people talk to me, I often give them an emotionless blank stare. I can't connect with them. Is there something like mild Asperger's disorder?

I've been having extreme mood changes lately. Even on the same day I can feel great for hours, and then suddenly I feel exhausted and very depressed. I have to discuss this with my psychiatrist, I'm really worried. Is this normal?

Be honest to yourself and think deeply. What do you think is the source of your anxiety around people? I have thought about mine; it's my deep conviction that I'm ugly or not attractive enough. I can't relax or be myself because of this deep conviction.

Woud it be a good idea to take benzos once or twice a week for years? I know that taking benzos daily for an extended period of time is bad, but what about once or twice a week? -would it keep working and would it be harmful? -can you use it together with antidepressants (I don't think so)...

I just had a job interview and I'm hired. Actually, I'm on welfare and won't get paid for this job. I will continue to receive my benefit. This job is temporary and to gain experience, but it's "real work". I haven't worked for years, so this is a very good opportunity to start. It's an...

I've been suicidally depressed in the past few days. I nearly collapsed from anxiety and exhaustion at the dentist today. And I have a job interview on thursday. I don't know what to do ::(:

People tell me that as you grow older the need for social contact increases. I know a woman who is 50 and divorced, she lives on her own. She 'warned' me that it's terrible to live alone and that I really should get my act together, and find a girl before it's too late (I'll be 33 in a few...

I don't like this phrase; "just be yourself". First, I don't know what my "real self" is. In social situations I'm just coping. I usually feel like an actor. How can I show my real self, if this even exists, when I have always felt an actor around people. I think that my real self is what I am...