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Is it that the person DOES NOT like you or care to know you at all OR is that they are attracted to you physically and afraid of rejection at some point?

When you KNOW a girl is interested in you? To become even shyer then you were and even more anxious around her after finding out and to hide yourself makes no sense to me..can someone please explain why this happens when the person has let you know you feel the same way; by HIS...

He said (in a note) he was sorry..and wasn't interested but didn't want to hurt me..now he won't go away and i am confused!!!!! I really thought he'd be staying away or possibly relieved that he let me know and that i would move on. Now he seems so..i don't know, confused, saddened, etc. that i...

This is her website!!!!! It looks good :) About - The Work of Byron Katie About Byron Katie Byron Katie, founder of The Work, has one job: to teach people how to end their own suffering. As she guides people through the powerful process of inquiry called The Work, they find that their...

My friend at work had mentioned this to me - it makes sense. Exposure therapy From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Exposure therapy is a cognitive behavioral therapy technique for reducing fear and anxiety responses, especially phobia, based on the principles of habituation and cognitive...

And as always he answered me loud and clear!!!!!!! Besides getting a good vibe from my shyguy today..i prayed we would start the week off with him being more open (and not scared or avoident) so i know that i am still on the right track and continue doing the right thing AND HE WAS GOOD TODAY...

When looking at a woman..wether you know her or not, when you find her PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE what is it about her physically turns you on??? Just curious :)

Hello All- Ok...hopefully i can get some input on why my shy guy at work can have 2 or 3 reeeeeeally good days with me at work; relaxed (for him) and smiling at me, making alot of eye contact, going out of his way for me when i need something, trying to be around me constantly, walking by me...

I was thinkin that for my shy guy at work i'd buy him a Valetine's Day card that lets him know EXACTLY how i feel. I actually saw one today and bought it..not sure if this is the ONE but its pretty good i think. The cover says "I don't give Valentines to just anyone....." and on the inside it...

I have been reading so much about Avoident Personality Disorder and Love Shyness and find the two go hand in hand. I also read that not being able to show affection (physically) and/or receive it from a woman (kissing, touching, full sexual contact) is many times the reason men become so...

Ok after reading some of these posts i have decided... That what you very shy and anxious men are saying is EVEN IF YOU LIKED THE GIRL ALOT, WANTED TO BE WITH HER MORE THAN ANYTHING, WERE CRAZY..MADLY..GOO-GOO EYED IN LOVE WITH HER YOU COULD NEVER EVER TELL HER OR SHOW HER, SO INTURN YOU COULD...

I am still trying to come up with the best way to approach my shy guy at work. After reading posts from the last 2 weeks or so i see that him liking me (and me feeling the same way) won't be enough for us to come together with his anxiety being so bad. Do i start by talking about how much i...

Hello All - I originally posted this before in the wrong place by mistake. I have a question.... One of the things my shy guy at work USE TO DO when he would walk into a room and approach me was he would sometimes go over to the window first and look out, it seems he would have to stand...

Hello All- One of the things my shy guy at work USE TO DO when he would walk into a room and approach me was he would sometimes go over to the window first and look out, it seems he would have to stand there for a few minutes before turning around to say something to me. And...if someone...

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"yeah actually. Its happened to me a few times but of cource even when i liked the girl and knew she was after me i could still never just go fo it. Once was a girl in my class at school and another was my best friends sister both of which made it pretty clear but of course getting nothing in...

I work with him and he is unbelievably shy and awkward around me...and only me!!! He's in his late 30's and from all accounts has never had a girlfriend. He always looks so sad when we make eye contcat (when he can) and i always feel he wants to say or do something when we are together but he...

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Thank you so much..i am rethinking my giving up on him. Its just so hard. I have made several attempts to make him comfortable and i really did hope the email would help some. It was business but i threw in a few personal items..things that he and i joked about. He was just so nervous when he...

What do you guys do? How are you feeling the moment you are ready to approach her..what stops you really? What runs through your minds when SHE is around and SHE tries to talk to you??? You want her, you KNOW SHE WANTS YOU but you can't do anything - why??? What is it exactly? Shyness...