It's actually pretty nice theres all kinds of food and wine and I make espresso for everyone, I put dark rum in it once and that was good. yeah it really is a good time, The adults well some of them do a gift exchange and we all by for the kids under 21. We actually act like like we like each other. You know we all love each other but we don't always like each other :/ know what I mean. What about you I feel like I dominating this, It's your turn spill. LOL!