Hello from South America

Solomon

Member
Hello, I just discovered this forum yesterday and decided to register, so I can discuss things and issues with people to whom I feel related because of the social phobia/anxiety condition.

I read a couple of posts and inmediately felt "at home"; honestly, I didn't expect to meet other people with SP/SA, as in my environment I seem to be the only person having it!

Just a bit about myself:
I'm in my early 30's, with a bachelor degree in Computer Science and currently a graduate student, I live almost alone (a relative and very good friend lives with me part of the year), and I've been experiencing SP/SA since I was 13 (actually also through childhood, but it wasn't too pronounced). Although I've managed to carry a more or less "normal" life (have a 9-5 office job, go to university, have a girlfriend), the daily struggle with the "real" me (the shy, apathetic, socially awkward) leaves me very tired at the end of most days. Of course, there are countless details involved when one has this condition (as you know firsthand), so I'll keep this introduction short.

Thank you very much for reading and I hope to participate actively in the forums!

(Sorry for my english, it's not my native language)
 
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ImNotMyIllness

Well-known member
Welcome to the forum! I totally understand what you mean by exhausting! Thank god though your persistent and have managed to have an active life, albeit a tiring one. With this condition, it's not to hard to find yourself jobless and without a girlfriend. Keep moving forward!
 

Solomon

Member
Thanks for the welcome and the encouraging messages! I just can say living with SP/SA is very difficult and a constant battle with the "normal" outside world. Although I've been with this for about my entire life, just recently I began to understand this condition from a medical and academic point of view.

By reading a few posts in this forum, I realize it's possible to find very valuable information written by educated and conscious people.
 
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