Are you shy

Are you shy?

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damiennn

damiennn

Member
Yes I'm a shy guy. When I meet somebody new for the first time I don't really talk to them, I'll just kinda observe them for a while. When I feel that they are someone I'd like to talk to then I'll talk to them. Like at work, there was a new guy that joined our crew and I don't think I talked to him for the first month. I think trust is a big part of it.
 
Kiwong

Kiwong

Well-known member
Fear of embarrassment is a big part of my anxiety.

I think I am completely gone in the head, and it will be a battle for things not to get worse for me.
 
Lea

Lea

Banned
I bet I am shyer than anyone here, I haven´t seen anyone worse off than me. I was always at the very bottom of society.
 
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da_illest101

Well-known member
I was really horrible when I was younger. I couldn't go to school because of how shy I was. When I went I couldn't ask someone for a ruler, it was pretty bad.

Now I'm still shy, just able to talk a bit more than before, but I still have a very long way to go
 
9407

9407

Well-known member
da_illest101 said:
I was really horrible when I was younger. I couldn't go to school because of how shy I was. When I went I couldn't ask someone for a ruler, it was pretty bad.

Now I'm still shy, just able to talk a bit more than before, but I still have a very long way to go
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I was at my worst when I was around 13-15. Back in grade 9, I was sitting down and some other kid in my class accidentally hit me in the head with his bag. I was so shy that I didn't even say anything to him. If it wasn't for some girl in my class that told him what he did, he wouldn't even have noticed. Also, if I knew that I had to partner up up with someone I would usually skip class that day.
 
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Nathália

Well-known member
9407 said:
I was at my worst when I was around 13-15. Back in grade 9, I was sitting down and some other kid in my class accidentally hit me in the head with his bag. I was so shy that I didn't even say anything to him. If it wasn't for some girl in my class that told him what he did, he wouldn't even have noticed. Also, if I knew that I had to partner up up with someone I would usually skip class that day.
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This sounds exactly like me. My shyness really depends on the day too, but some days I am incredibly bashful.

Highschool boys made me extremely nervous because they were jumping all over the place, play fighting in the halls, pushing/shoving so much that they actually ran into me at times and they would just keep on going like I wasn't there. I sometimes mustered up the strength to say excuse you, but it was embarrassing when they didn't hear me and would keep on pushing. I wanted to punch someone, but when I speak up everyone thinks I'm crazy. I really don't like people. I have a bad attitude? No you have a nasty attitude because I'm getting on you for not respecting me. Oh say something to a popular kid and the group mentality was on.

I hated highschool, it was a piece of **** and the people were big......

I would skip days for partners too, I hated it. I remember one year gym class I had a partner because she was shy too, but it was so hard to find one. I got partnered up with the shy people. Which was cool because we got our work done faster. I would panic when they were sick.
 
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Alone97

Active member
I am extremely shy whenever someone says something to me or when a teacher asks me a question I go bright red! It's worse when we have to give talks in English it sucks and I feel like I'm gonna puke, have a panic attack then die! So I guess my answer is yes lol
 
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RaphielDrake

Member
I've always been shy, now I'm shy and aware that most people on this planet are *******s who won't give a second thought about shafting you with a broomhandle wrapped in barbed wire if it benefits them in anyway.
Paranoia? Na-uh. Realism pal, realism.
 
JonSP

JonSP

Well-known member
Some days I'm ok, but other days I'm terribly shy.

I can't see any patterns or reasons why, it's very annoying when sometimes i handle potentially embarrassing situations fine, but then go bright red over something so stupid and irrelevant.
 
Luka

Luka

Well-known member
I'd say I'm shy and always have been. I don't hate it so much, I just don't like it when people find out about it and then whenever they talk to me they're just patronizing >_<
 
Rxqueen

Rxqueen

Well-known member
Being shy might be good for other people but it has not had any positive affects on me. The extend of my shyness and anxiety has basically made my life a worthless mess of avoidance and fear. I can't find anything positive in that.
 
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