partying is so great !

[Clown]

sorry for the long story, but hope somebody can relate
I have gone out partying for the first time since almost 2 years with friends
it was so great, the problem is im half deaf so I don''t even hear my
self talking, and thats why I don't like to go clubs whehere the noise is so loud... im just staring all night
But when we were going to clubs with where the noise is not
so loud en hear my self and other talk.. im almost the
loudest and active person.. with alchol ( I really didn't realise it because of the above I just though parting was nothing for me)

damn what do I have missed the last years im 21 , I now realise
how much I have missed so much fun.

Im quit handsome everybody says and all the girls were just coming to
me one-bye-one lol

pfff what have I done with my life, the last few years could have been so
fun but I have litteraly destroyed it for my self.

Im gonna change now and party more,, but what do I hate my life after
everyone is going home ... I can't party 7 days of the week only 2 days going out so thats 5 days left over being depressed and anxious nervous kid around
people I don't well on school and work.... and im 21 now so after 3-4 years
everyone stops partying and going out and get a family life and work pretty much all day long .... but the problem is I can't barely work and go to school to tensed and fogged anxious mind.

**** **** **** it ! why do can''t I just stop worrying about everything , im looking like **** girl .

Im a very angry bittered yong man sorry about this rant

 

[sullyS25]

Good luck trying to find the answer to this problem through the use of alcohol and partying. I hope it works out for you.

 

[Clown]

Yes 2 times a week take some booze on a party or eating somewhere not so bad, but when you do it on
non-events like going outside talking and some smoking with friends no so good idea sully.
You need to do it in a good mood or else the booze will destroy you.

tommorow night again partying.. im sure now I can loose my virginity lol finally

when the partying stops and going out regular and everyone gets a family
I don't know im gonna make it if my gad & sad is not better in a few years and probably will commit suicide ... but still few years to go and things can change I hope, with some work.

 

[MikeyC]

While it's nice to like partying and alcohol, don't rely on them to overcome your issues because that'll be dangerous for you. I'm glad you've found something you like, though.

I am over partying, personally, but I still do it and have done it in the past and I have had some good times.

 

[sullyS25]

Yes 2 times a week take some booze on a party or eating somewhere not so bad, but when you do it on
non-events like going outside talking and some smoking with friends no so good idea sully.
You need to do it in a good mood or else the booze will destroy you.

tommorow night again partying.. im sure now I can loose my virginity lol finally

when the partying stops and going out regular and everyone gets a family
I don't know im gonna make it if my gad & sad is not better in a few years and probably will commit suicide ... but still few years to go and things can change I hope, with some work.

Yes, the problem is when you start justifying drinking more and more and more. The problem is when you think there is no other way to overcome your issues other than alcohol or drugs. That will only lead to severe suffering. You obviously see this when you say that you will probably commit suicide when you have no one to drink with.

To foresee this path you described so well and still continue on it is insanity. Ive lived it man. I was you. I only thought there was ONE answer to my problems with anxiety and it was alcohol. Yes I was at the point where I would drink and be in a good mood and only do it twice a week. I swore I would only do it with friends on the weekends. Or only twice a week like you said. Then I made excuses to do it 3 times a week, but it was ok because I was still having fun. It progressed to 4 times, then 5, then 6 then every night of the week. Then I continued on the path of denial saying I never drank during the day time so it was ok because I was still enjoying myself.....I have been down this path man, I have thought the same thoughts you are communicating to us in this thread, to a T and I can tell you this mentality will end up taking you to places you dont want to go. You think your life is hard to live now....If you continue thinking that the only answer to your anxiety is alcohol, you will know true suffering...

There are other ways to deal with depression and anxiety. They are healthier and not temporary like the effects of alcohol. I am not telling what to do because I know you will figure it out on your own. What I am telling you is that there is hope outside of alcohol and partying. There are other, more permanent ways of dealing with your feelings and finding relief from anxiety and depression....You just admitted that the path you were on will lead to you wanting to kill yourself.....those were your words not mine and that is sad. I want you to know that there are other ways to find hope.

 

[WhereisMonika]

Partying is so boring to me, just a bunch of idiots flopping around and acting like monkeys on crack. I've always felt this way about it too. Just my perspective.

 

[Iluv]

Just be safe and try to not let it take over your life!

 

[GhastlyCC]

Partying is so boring to me, just a bunch of idiots flopping around and acting like monkeys on crack. I've always felt this way about it too. Just my perspective.

haha!
This is pretty much my thoughts on them too.
Alot of them anyway...Ive been to a few cool one's.
Mostly Halloween related.