People don't have any respect for those who suffers SA

[hoddesdon]

You have unwittingly taught them that they have "permission" to do that.

 

[JamesSmith]

You have unwittingly taught them that they have "permission" to do that.

I'm assuming you are saying we have taught them to ignore us without the intentions of having us ignore them, and that is true. What I'm complaining about is not just the fact that shy guys suffer, but I'm also asking why 90% of women don't make the first move because I believe that because the women so often do not make the first move they often are setting themselves up for failure because they are eliminating choice. This isn't for the women w/ SA problems, I'm talking about all those outgoing women out there who refuse to make the first move. I get why women with SA would be afraid, but there are SO many outgoing women that refuse to balance the dating world by making the first move and leave their future in the guy who comes up and talks to her first. This explains the 50%+ divorce rate, the spouse abuse and cheating. If women did make the first move, there would still be this stuff, but I think it would happen on a lot less. Both sexes are suffering because of this "tradition" that men usually make the first move.

 

[PurpleOne]

I hate when people don't believe what we're going through I always get told things like, "You're just shy, you should talk more!"
If only it was that easy.

They think it's as easy as saying "1, 2, 3". WRONG!!!