Do you see yourself as being alone the rest of your life?

Do you see yourself as being alone the rest of your life?

  • Yes, it may never change because im used to it being that way.

    Votes: 43 62.3%
  • No, I'll just find anyone just so I am not lonely.

    Votes: 3 4.3%
  • No, I'll find someone I feel equally attracted to.

    Votes: 20 29.0%
  • I don't want anyone, I'm lost.

    Votes: 3 4.3%

  • Total voters
    69

voodoochild16

Well-known member
I don't, as a part of Social Anxiety I think that I only see myself having a reason to live with someone to enjoy it with. I think that's the natural thing that human beings are meant to feel.
 

Richey

Well-known member
I don't either, but my general awkwardness and quietness probably says otherwise. put it this way, at the moment i work in a cliquey workplace, its very hard to adapt to that even for the best of personalities. at home its also a difficult place to relax in. But i have found some places where i can relax and i can talk to people.

Look to be honest i think its an environment issue. some people are suited to certain environments (work, home, education, etc) that suits them but many are in environments that dont suit them or they can't adapt to it, that's the issue i think. Once that becomes a routine and a habit then progress is pretty difficult. so finding the right environment/head space/lifestyle/whatever is the key.
 
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voodoochild16

Well-known member
Well obviously I sound like I am someone who can only live, enjoying my life with someone, and I guess I can say that is the exact truth. Most of my close friends got into relationships or got married just before they took on college, which it just happened that way, but it would be interesting to see them going to college without a relationship.
 

Aron

Well-known member
Sadly, yes. I don't see myself being capable of building a relationship with a woman.
 

AsTimeBurns

Well-known member
Yes. I'm just as likely to find someone and get married/settle down/etc... as I am to jump off the roof and fly.
 

x Will x

Well-known member
The thing that scares me most is being lonely, i make a real effort to make sure i have people around me.
 

JuiceB

Well-known member
Do I see myself being alone for the rest of my life? This is a hard question to answer. I don't want to see myself being lonely even though that's where it looks like I'm heading. If I just sit here with my head up my ass wallowing in self-pity then it's pretty much a given. I need to pick myself up. I have no choice if I want my life story to end happily.
 

bhn

Member
Not unlikely. Like many others, I too entertained the idea that someone will come along and limitless, undying love will pave the road to happiness. In all fairness, there have been opportunities that more grounded fellows would have probably made something of. But not me.

Worse still, from what I've read on forums it appears that the lonely and less than socially spectacular people out there are not exactly looking to meet someone in the same boat. Oh, no -quite often they'll look down on someone they perceive to be a little worse off then themselves, while clinging to old fantasies of having the life of the party finally see them for who they truly are (!) sometime soon and bring about a well deserved happy ending.
 

scaredy_fox

Member
I hope that I will find someone someday. I'm trying to stay optimistic but it's not that easy when every day looks the same and as bad as the one before. I don't want to spend my life forever alone. I have an uncle who never got married and who lives alone. It's a very crappy life that I don't want to have but so far it seems like I'm heading down that path.
 

Bustn Justin

Well-known member
I feel that I am going to be alone forever. I don't feel compatible with anyone to spend the rest of my life with.
 

GhastlyCC

Well-known member
I certainly hope not.
Id love nothing more than to have somebody that I genuinely care for,and who genuinely cares for me.
But I wouldn't be surprised if it turned out that way...unfortunately.
SA+Awful personality+Being a hideous monster is not a recipe for romantic success.lol
I don't think I'd be too terribly devastated if it were to happened though.
(But ofcourse...that could just be denial and fear talking)

I can only hope that I cross paths with a girl with horrible taste in men.
Who will find my ghastly facial features to be at least near the same realm as "attractive"
Does such a girl exist?
I doubt it.

Forever ugly
Forever anxious
Forever a hermit
Forever alone
 
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mikebird

Banned
I spent quite a while thinking over all those options... each has a very reasonable, sensible and valid choice. I chose the first, right at the top. I found a lot of pleasure in discovering that we all feel the same so far. I will follow the results and see the changes.

I'll do anything to pair up with any woman I can. The person who designed these options would make a good equal match.

But... anybody with SA, or anyone otherwise would make a good partner. Compromise is key. I don't want a male partner :)
 

wariomona

Active member
To me the question is "Do you see yourself as being free the rest of your life?"
Who needs friends or lovers? They just make you see your faults and tie you down.
...
At least that's what I tell myself so being alone doesn't seem so bad...
 
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