why is socializing important?

Thanks for all the feedback

For me, I'd rather I limit my social interactions with people then to go full on extrovert with people(even a little.) Since the vast majority of people can be so cruel and manipulative, that won't be the reason I will go out of my way to communicate with people. The only thing I may consider is if I see people as an aquantaince, but not very often seeing or doing things with them. Being alone is my best choice.

Funny, I really do think this world reminds me of Sims a lot , without the meter bar or symbolism mood indicator.

I love lions said:

Funny, I really do think this world reminds me of Sims a lot , without the meter bar or symbolism mood indicator.

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As for socializing I thank it everything about life. I just wish people would start seeing it as a important skill instead of just somthing that come naturally. I do believe people die and go hungry because they don`t understand How this skill works.

Of course, socializing maybe important, but I think what really needs to be stopped is how we(if anyone possibly could) would manage to snap these norm people out of their society behaviors. If people would stop being manipulating and have more care for the world, I wouldn't have a problem speaking up. I value respect.

I love lions said:

Of course, socializing maybe important, but I think what really needs to be stopped is how we(if anyone possibly could) would manage to snap these norm people out of their society behaviors. If people would stop being manipulating and have more care for the world, I wouldn't have a problem speaking up. I value respect.

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same here I value respect too . I yoos to talk like that too. But then everybody told me that I was the problem so I just took my focus off of them and started on me. yeah, I tryed saying that before " if only people was nicer then it would be easyer." you got to get strong in this world and care less of what people think of you to get a head in this world.

Socializing for people like us is extremely important but I can't say why

I appreciate the advice you give me(and so others have), however people have deliberately or not have completely destroyed my self esteem which causes me to care now what others think. My family, kids around me, all have little or less acceptance of me which I don't really know how I'm not supposed to care what they think since they still do it. I can't be strong anymore since I suffered through all this emotional and possibly verbal abuse from others. I'm just a miscast in my family, just like an miscast actor who doesn't suit for a big holly wood standard movie. I feel like all my family got the spotlight shone on them, but I'm the one who barely gets any recognition or at least consideration to my needs. I don't nessecarily think it's me who really needs to change myself, but I think it's the others who need to realize that life is not how it usually is in the movies. I wish I could find people exactly like me(and no I wound not get bored with another person like me since at least we would have a TON in common) If only I could find people who have my personality traits: kind, sensitive, emotional, shy, helpful, artistic, creative, ect. I never want to befriend another extrovert ever, I'm just done find people who are being complete snobbish and domineering and just the opposite of what I am. I think I'm always paired up with the wrong people, and yet they want to help me even though they still aren't afraid to say I'm quiet or I haven't said one ******* word. I don't need their help, they can help themselves for starters by how they're acting. They say stuff without actually hearing what they have said, because they have no ears to listen. I wonder if it would be really that hard to prove on a tape recorder what these extroverts sound like towards others. Maybe society intended on making extroverts clueless just to make most of us realize how wrong it is.:thinking:

To each, his own. We all have needs and these needs are unique to each individual. I am shy, slow to heat up, and introverted, but I have always wished to have a circle of close friends. I felt very lonely in middle school and high school and turned to video games and crying at night. I held on tight to each opportunity to make friends, and i looked desperate because of that. Socializing did not come easy to me. Besides wanting friends, I also liked girls. So i also wished to have a girlfriend. Sure, i can go through life and not socialize and remain in a state of sadness, but it would really make my day if I could socialize successfully. So, i'm here.