why do the bad guys get all the girls?

shygirly

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I have never been attracted to jerks,no lie. That being said I like a man who can stand up to me and for himself.
 

Kien

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Bad guys gets the really nice girls who you would actually believe to like nice guys... I can tell.

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What was her description of it then Kien!

Your post is a bit vague :)
I translate here:

I was sitting on a bus going home at around 22:00 when a ugy about 20-22 years old, maybe 1.90 with the body of a hockey player lights a cigaret and completly confidently starts smoking on the bus. When I an some other people looked at him he didn't even care, just looked at use without any face expression. Busy smoking simply.

None of us said anything, but somebody in the front part of the bus went towards him and teold him to get of the bus and that he was going to call the police. At the same time the person went up from the seat he dropped of some ash to the floor and said "I'll wait for the police here." I thought it was very scar, not the action itself, but that the person didn't make a face expression during the whole event, and the whole lack of respect towards us others. It was a bit strange. And when he stood there outside the door when it closed he looked at me and smiled a "hi".

And this made me like half in love with him and almost a little horny, and I feel a bit ashamed over that I like these kind of guys.


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Think of it, how many murdurers and heavy drug dealers in the world do you think are or were virgins? I think there are waaaaay less than the amount of nice guys being virgins.
 
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klytus

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It's kind of pointless to ask women this ancient question. You should've realized that by now.

All the bad guys get the dumb girls
I guess it's not about who gets whom. It's more about who gets anyone at all. And the bad guys definitely get girls, while the nice/doormattish (or just less loudmouthed) guys go away empty-handed.
 

doesit

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Hi sorry to all the jerks out there. Has anyone ever heard the saying 'nice guys finish last'. I think I'm one of the nice guys yet it seems to me all the guys like me don't get any women but all the guys I consider to be 'jerks' do. Does anyone share my view? Why do you think this is?
time from time these topics come up and always the same stories with them.First realize that you dont have a girlfriend because you have a problem let it be anxiety,sa or whatever you have there.And if you appear nervous,akward or silent in front of them you wont ever have a chance with girls,you can be nice and all that but if you dont have anything interesting in your life and want to live like a 70year old man (peacefully) no girls gonna look at such person.
 

Emily_G

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Hi sorry to all the jerks out there. Has anyone ever heard the saying 'nice guys finish last'. I think I'm one of the nice guys yet it seems to me all the guys like me don't get any women but all the guys I consider to be 'jerks' do. Does anyone share my view? Why do you think this is?

Believe me, good guys really do finish last :) Cause when all the bad boys go to jail, the girls will have to find a new man ;)

And I think bad guys get all the girls because girls are stupid. Lol.
 

iamthenra

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Believe me, good guys really do finish last :) Cause when all the bad boys go to jail, the girls will have to find a new man ;)

And I think bad guys get all the girls because girls are stupid. Lol.

Finally, some common sense! Haha! lol :D::p:

I've been a doormat my entire life, so I know all too well about this good guy / bad guy thing. But I believe that the bad guys just show allot more confidence in themselves which is attractive, and the shy timid guys display a lack of confidence which isn't nearly as attractive... So it really is our fault..... Of course this is just a small part of attraction, and we obviously display other undesirable traits that have to be seen as repulsive to women...???
 
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