Probably love. None of my past gf's knew about my condition. I would just become reclusive and withdrawn when it would act up and to them I was acting really strangely. I could never bring myself to tell them for fear of embarassment. That's why I've had so few relationships and so few intimate experiences. Just to be able to hold hands or touch their skin. Luckily, I am a successful iontophoresis user and things are much better!
Apart from that, everything else is pretty equal. I love playing basketball, but it becomes hard to handle the ball or shoot when my HH is acting up. HH makes work difficult, as I work with my hands all day. I use to play the piano but it was imppossible when my HH was acting up. And forget about playing the drums lol. The sticks would stay in my hands for about 5 seconds before they slipped out and go flying across the room. Writing, driving, using my laptop or iphone, all difficult. Video games, nope. I remember I was at a girls house that I had been getting close to and she wanted to play Guitar Hero. Uh, uh. Not a chance. I must of came off as wierd and a jerk because she kept askiing me and I kept refusing.
As I said, luckily I am a successful inotophoresis user and my quality of life is much improved, although I slack on my treatments at times and my HH will come back.