Yikes!

JosephG

JosephG

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I've got a girl coming over later and she's due here in like an hour! I feel quite nervous! What if I don't know what to say? What if there's an awkward silence and we're just sitting there like looking at eachother D: Urgh. I hope this goes well! I am so bad at 1 on 1 conversations D:
Ahhhhhhhh
 
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Feathers

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Haha, just make everything look kinda clean (at least put away socks and random clothing..) If she likes you, even if you are both silent, it can be nice.. Maybe you can start writing poems or drawing pictures or reading a book with poems or good/funny literature or even tidbits from a magazine or something?
 
3lefts

3lefts

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Whatever you do, don't work yourself up. Don't think about being anxious. Avoid focus on being nervous.
 
JosephG

JosephG

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Thanks for your replies guys they always mean a lot to me :)
It went....... okay. I'm taking it as a positive though! We had a few laughs and there was a lot of conversation. A lot more than I can usually produce which is why I'm taking it as a positive. But I could tell at times she was quite bored. And by the end of the evening conversation was sometimes coming to a stand still.

Sigh... Nothing happened! But it was meant to. I just couldn't work towards "the moment". It just wasn't happening. I usually do okay with woman but that is because I am out in town or something pissed and just put on an utter act. But in a 1 on 1 situations I just struggle!!....

I feel positive about the whole experience and hope I can improve on experiences like this! I feel a small win! But at the same time a loss because nothing happened and because she seemed bored at times D:

However Feathers :p We did write some lyrics/poetry and made a song! It's quite nifty actually - I am proud of it.

But I have a feeling she probably won't want to come round again :(((((
 
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