Hi, I'm new to this place and would like to hear thoughts on this subject.
I have recently discovered my downfalls in life and the reasons why, however the clincher still remains. For some strange reason I couldn't buy a date even if I wanted one, I found that I suffer from abandonment issues and separation anxiety solely from my mother which prevents me from having any type of relationship with the opposite sex. The really strange part is that I am in sales and am very good with people especially women, when I know it is a stricly achedemic encounter I'm as smooth as ice. When it comes to a romantic venture, it's all downhill. I would very much like to improve on this because I'd rather not live alone for the rest of my life, but I'm 34 and I really am starting believe that this is the way it has to be. Just a for instance, a woman that I have known for quite some time asked me to go out the following day, I said I'd call her when I got to town, then she stood me up? It leaves a lot of questions and of course I blame myself. Here's a little about myself as well, I'm well liked and popular, I have a very good job, i have been called attractive many times (especially after dropping 110lbs), I'm funny, very intelligent and excel at anything I do. I'm just at the end of my rope and need to make some serious decisions be fore I get too old.
I have recently discovered my downfalls in life and the reasons why, however the clincher still remains. For some strange reason I couldn't buy a date even if I wanted one, I found that I suffer from abandonment issues and separation anxiety solely from my mother which prevents me from having any type of relationship with the opposite sex. The really strange part is that I am in sales and am very good with people especially women, when I know it is a stricly achedemic encounter I'm as smooth as ice. When it comes to a romantic venture, it's all downhill. I would very much like to improve on this because I'd rather not live alone for the rest of my life, but I'm 34 and I really am starting believe that this is the way it has to be. Just a for instance, a woman that I have known for quite some time asked me to go out the following day, I said I'd call her when I got to town, then she stood me up? It leaves a lot of questions and of course I blame myself. Here's a little about myself as well, I'm well liked and popular, I have a very good job, i have been called attractive many times (especially after dropping 110lbs), I'm funny, very intelligent and excel at anything I do. I'm just at the end of my rope and need to make some serious decisions be fore I get too old.
