Why must it be so hard?

[Dodger]

I always find it so hard to talk to new people guys are hard to talk to and I find girls impossible to talk to. I feel like no one likes me and that no girl would ever give me a chance ever. I just want to fit in socially but it is too late I guess I never really learned how to be social or something I wish there was some way I could just not have to worry about my problem with out the use of drugs or alcohol. I don't do any of those now and I don't really want to. But I feel so alone and sad.

 

[iamthenra]

Yep.... alone and sad. The story of my life. I've been alone for way too long, since I was born the only people around me were my parents... Now I can't stand my mom, but if I get rid of her, I will have nobody...

 

[divethruhaze]

i feel the same...

 

[raylite]

I used to feel exactly the same, I just felt like I couldn't relate to anyone...loneliness is a bitch!

 

[DillJenkins]

I feel exactly the same, especially about women. I am 23 now and I feel like it is too late for me to meet a women. I would very much like to but I dont really know how to.

I feel as if I am under constant judgment from people. And me having anxiety for so long makes me come of as weird to most people.

I wish I could give some advice but it seems that we have the same problems.

 

[Noca]

I feel exactly the same, especially about women. I am 23 now and I feel like it is too late for me to meet a women. I would very much like to but I dont really know how to.

I feel as if I am under constant judgment from people. And me having anxiety for so long makes me come of as weird to most people.

I wish I could give some advice but it seems that we have the same problems.

23 is hardly TOO late lol

 

[klytus]

23 is hardly TOO late lol

Be realistic. The older you get, the more women are in relationships. Around the age of 23, I'd say, many women have found someone they don't want to get rid of when someone seemingly better crosses their way. One positive aspect of being a man is that your partner can be many years younger than you, and nobody would ever complain. So, even if you are past thirty, you can easily get a girl in her twenties. That may compensate for the lack of available women at his age.