I have one cousin that is a little bit shy (but no social phobia), had problems with bullying at school, when one girlfriend left him he stopped eating and got depressed. He definitely can't argue with no one, he accepts everything that people ask them to do. If someone fights with him, he keeps calling for the person to solve problems because he can't stand losing a friend etc. His mother, my aunt, has always talked his stories to everyone, so everybody in the family know that he is a little bit "fragile".
And people sometimes scream with him etc, and he always stays quiet, never argue or fight back.
I think I'm really polite when talking to people in general.
When I meet him at Christmas or at my mother's house, he is ALWAYS very bitter with me.
It's like:
Me: People are feeding this dog with the wrong kind of food. This kind of food is for another breed of dog.
Cousin: Ohhhh! So you are a veterinary now! Please, check if the dog's health is ok too.
Me: ...
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Me: This band used to be so good, but now their new songs are not so good. Maybe that's why they are doing few shows nowadays.
Cousin: You are talking a lot of ****, please stop talking.
Me: ...
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What annoys me is that he doesn't talk like that with no one! It's quite the opposite! Actually, People talk like that with him.
I know people can read you corporal language or your tone of voice and see that you scared as hell, but I try my best to hide this things, I can't identify how the son of a bit.ch detects that I'm weaker than him (for now).
And people sometimes scream with him etc, and he always stays quiet, never argue or fight back.
I think I'm really polite when talking to people in general.
When I meet him at Christmas or at my mother's house, he is ALWAYS very bitter with me.
It's like:
Me: People are feeding this dog with the wrong kind of food. This kind of food is for another breed of dog.
Cousin: Ohhhh! So you are a veterinary now! Please, check if the dog's health is ok too.
Me: ...
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Me: This band used to be so good, but now their new songs are not so good. Maybe that's why they are doing few shows nowadays.
Cousin: You are talking a lot of ****, please stop talking.
Me: ...
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What annoys me is that he doesn't talk like that with no one! It's quite the opposite! Actually, People talk like that with him.
I know people can read you corporal language or your tone of voice and see that you scared as hell, but I try my best to hide this things, I can't identify how the son of a bit.ch detects that I'm weaker than him (for now).