When i'm anxious.....

[Skatergirl]

Hey everyone.
When I'm anxious I always become very quiet, and i become very unconfident, and i feel really childish and like someone who has no self esteem.
And i talk with a little voice.
It drives me crazy, When i'm myself i'm a strong woman with a loud speaking voice, who knows what she wants. But mostly (because of my anxiety) I dont know what to do, and i act like someone who is really scared and awkward.
Do you guys know what i mean ? Its so frustrating....
I want to be my self. Being anxious is not being me.

 

[Fairy001]

Yes I do know what you mean. I felt for so many years there was no space for me in this world, everyone else had rights I couldn't own. The right to be themselves, the right not to be riddled with self doubt and anxiety.

I am older now and feel there is space for me, although anxiety is still an issue. Stand tall and proud, you have nothing to fear but fear its self.

Peace

 

[Ashiene]

Hey everyone.
When I'm anxious I always become very quiet, and i become very unconfident, and i feel really childish and like someone who has no self esteem.
And i talk with a little voice.
It drives me crazy, When i'm myself i'm a strong woman with a loud speaking voice, who knows what she wants. But mostly (because of my anxiety) I dont know what to do, and i act like someone who is really scared and awkward.
Do you guys know what i mean ? Its so frustrating....
I want to be my self. Being anxious is not being me.

I would like to know your secret to appearing so confident in all your YouTube videos

 

[Skatergirl]

I would like to know your secret to appearing so confident in all your YouTube videos

You really think i look confident on the vids?
Well, on the videos ok. i'm maybe more confident,
but in real.. like social situations i act so awkward and i'm really nervous around people. And i dont know anything to say. i just freeze up.
And on youtube it's just a little camera and myself, to record something.
with knowing that i can delete it before i post it on youtube.
so thats not something big to me.

 

[mikestar]

put on an act skatergirl, think/act big/confident and better than everyone else.Make people see that as well and it will make it easier for you.
im scared deep down but I try not to let people see that on the outside.
It is hard sometimes though and you should just be yourself

 

[recluse]

You look confident in your youtube vids, there's no way in hell i'd be able to do that. I know what you mean though. I feel like a little kid when i am anxious.