AsHLeY
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Whenever I make friends with someone, they seem to smother me until I can't stand them any longer. My friendships usually don't outlast a year before I end up moving on to another. It's pathetic, really. I envy the people that "have been best friends since birth." I don't know if it's because my social skills are so poor, that the constant socializing with that person is exhausting to me or if my tolerance level for all people is the lowest of the low!
It's always pretty much the same scenerio ~ I meet somebody that seems pretty cool & they ask me to hang out with them one weekend. I do and one weekend turns into about three in a row.... then, suddenly I'm supposed to be hanging out with them at all times. They even get mad at me if I have a 'family thing' to go to. When I'm not with them, they call or text me a lot. They get mad if I go somewhere without inviting them. They even seem to get jelous if I'm talking to someone else - it's really strange to me. I seem to find the really possessive types of friends.
My point is that by the time the year is over, I'm so sick of seeing that person who I once called a friend. I just feel trapped & annoyed by them. To get away from them, I end up avoiding them at all costs, even getting my siblings to answer the phone and tell them I'm not in and won't be back for a long while. (I know that's cruel... but necessary)
Does anybody else end up with these types of friends??? What's the deal?
It's always pretty much the same scenerio ~ I meet somebody that seems pretty cool & they ask me to hang out with them one weekend. I do and one weekend turns into about three in a row.... then, suddenly I'm supposed to be hanging out with them at all times. They even get mad at me if I have a 'family thing' to go to. When I'm not with them, they call or text me a lot. They get mad if I go somewhere without inviting them. They even seem to get jelous if I'm talking to someone else - it's really strange to me. I seem to find the really possessive types of friends.
My point is that by the time the year is over, I'm so sick of seeing that person who I once called a friend. I just feel trapped & annoyed by them. To get away from them, I end up avoiding them at all costs, even getting my siblings to answer the phone and tell them I'm not in and won't be back for a long while. (I know that's cruel... but necessary)
Does anybody else end up with these types of friends??? What's the deal?
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