Edith
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I'm a wee bit confused...
I think that this guy who works for my company may LIKE me but I'm not sure. He texts me sometimes and we go out for drinks, and sometimes we hang out or go for a trip or something on the weekend... but I think of us as just `work or travel` buddies. But then we started talking about relationships one night and the girl he described as his `ìdeal girl`had some uncomfortable resemblances to me, and at this bar that he goes to often he was saying about the owner, "I bet she'll come over and ask if you're my girlfriend, because she always sees me in here alone!" Also we are both insomniacs and he was like, "If you ever can't sleep call me and we can hang out" and then later that day after he said that he texted me and said, "Seriously... give me a call if your awake."
All of that would not make me think that he liked me except that my co-worker always seems to bring him up whenever we talk. He says things like, `you know who`s a really nice guy...`or `Jeremy is such a nice guy, he`s so smart and cultured, I think that he is a real catch...`
Then tonight I went for a beer after work with my co-worker and I was jokingly telling him that I would help him find a girlfriend if he helped me find a boyfriend and he said laughing, `Well I know this guy named Jeremy...` and I though that he was maybe joking... but I dont get it - did he talk to Jeremy and know that he likes me, or is he just trying to set us up because he thinks that we would be a good match...
Im sincerely not interested... but Im also not sure if he likes me or not, and now Im dreading some kind of awkward interaction sometime in the future when we hang out....
I know this is long winded and you probably dont care about my lame whining about love... but to my knowledege nobody has ever liked me before and the few times that Ive been out in the last while with guys, Ive been told after that they were dates... I had no idea!
Im sincerely clueless... and I hate that feeling.
I think that this guy who works for my company may LIKE me but I'm not sure. He texts me sometimes and we go out for drinks, and sometimes we hang out or go for a trip or something on the weekend... but I think of us as just `work or travel` buddies. But then we started talking about relationships one night and the girl he described as his `ìdeal girl`had some uncomfortable resemblances to me, and at this bar that he goes to often he was saying about the owner, "I bet she'll come over and ask if you're my girlfriend, because she always sees me in here alone!" Also we are both insomniacs and he was like, "If you ever can't sleep call me and we can hang out" and then later that day after he said that he texted me and said, "Seriously... give me a call if your awake."
All of that would not make me think that he liked me except that my co-worker always seems to bring him up whenever we talk. He says things like, `you know who`s a really nice guy...`or `Jeremy is such a nice guy, he`s so smart and cultured, I think that he is a real catch...`
Then tonight I went for a beer after work with my co-worker and I was jokingly telling him that I would help him find a girlfriend if he helped me find a boyfriend and he said laughing, `Well I know this guy named Jeremy...` and I though that he was maybe joking... but I dont get it - did he talk to Jeremy and know that he likes me, or is he just trying to set us up because he thinks that we would be a good match...
Im sincerely not interested... but Im also not sure if he likes me or not, and now Im dreading some kind of awkward interaction sometime in the future when we hang out....
I know this is long winded and you probably dont care about my lame whining about love... but to my knowledege nobody has ever liked me before and the few times that Ive been out in the last while with guys, Ive been told after that they were dates... I had no idea!
Im sincerely clueless... and I hate that feeling.