Zor
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There are a lot of things that I think culminated in my AvPD.
I was always hyper sensitive to the emotions of the people around me even from a very early age. I think this leads to me being hyper aware of the mistakes that we all make when we are children. This lead to some shyness in my youth.
I feel like I never really fit into my peer group because of a couple major difference between and the rest of my class. I was tall--very tall. I was about a foot taller than anyone in my 5th grade class, including the teacher. I was also smart. I was put into the Gifted and Talented program at my school (special program for smart kids) but I was the only one from my class and I feel like that made me stand out too.
I know some of you might be thinking I should feel lucky being "smart," AND "tall." If you are then I don't think you know what it can feel like to be incapable of blending into your peer group.
Anyway, I did have some friends that I made when I was in first grade. They were the best. But then in fifth grade, the School district built a new elementary school and I was suddenly rezoned into a new school and all my friends stayed at the old school. Then in sixth grade, my best friend betrayed me and left me with absolutely no friends at all. This was the start of my lifelong depression.
I wasn't able to make any friends in middle school, high school, or in college. By my junior year in high school, I had given up trying to make friends with people. I felt like people simply didn't like me and never would. I'm pretty sure this is when I completely withdrew and developed my AvPD.
I was always hyper sensitive to the emotions of the people around me even from a very early age. I think this leads to me being hyper aware of the mistakes that we all make when we are children. This lead to some shyness in my youth.
I feel like I never really fit into my peer group because of a couple major difference between and the rest of my class. I was tall--very tall. I was about a foot taller than anyone in my 5th grade class, including the teacher. I was also smart. I was put into the Gifted and Talented program at my school (special program for smart kids) but I was the only one from my class and I feel like that made me stand out too.
I know some of you might be thinking I should feel lucky being "smart," AND "tall." If you are then I don't think you know what it can feel like to be incapable of blending into your peer group.
Anyway, I did have some friends that I made when I was in first grade. They were the best. But then in fifth grade, the School district built a new elementary school and I was suddenly rezoned into a new school and all my friends stayed at the old school. Then in sixth grade, my best friend betrayed me and left me with absolutely no friends at all. This was the start of my lifelong depression.
I wasn't able to make any friends in middle school, high school, or in college. By my junior year in high school, I had given up trying to make friends with people. I felt like people simply didn't like me and never would. I'm pretty sure this is when I completely withdrew and developed my AvPD.