What does it mean 'you will suffer if you don't work hard now'?

Diend

Well-known member
Somebody said that to me when I said I wasn't motivated at the moment. I asked her to give me examples of how I would suffer but she said "it would be different fore everyone" which doesn't help me at all. What do you guys make of this "suffering"? What could it be...in real terms.
 

MollyBeGood

Well-known member
Somebody said that to me when I said I wasn't motivated at the moment. I asked her to give me examples of how I would suffer but she said "it would be different fore everyone" which doesn't help me at all. What do you guys make of this "suffering"? What could it be...in real terms.


I have worked my ass off and suffered plenty. I think this is coming from someone trying to scare you into being a working slave. Always, ALWAYS consider the source when someone says something to you like this.

If you want to be unproductive and sit around playing video games it is your choice for example and you might "suffer" later because you missed the opportunities to say, expand out of your comfort zone and try new things explore the world etc...Suffering is relative and subjectable-keep that in mind too :) Someone might consider suffering not to have the latest Ipad or someone else might really be suffering from lack of food...

she was really being aloof with her reason to say this to you...Your Mom perhaps?
 

S_Spartan

Well-known member
Somebody said that to me when I said I wasn't motivated at the moment. I asked her to give me examples of how I would suffer but she said "it would be different fore everyone" which doesn't help me at all. What do you guys make of this "suffering"? What could it be...in real terms.

In my life I've found that it doesn't matter if I work hard or do nothing the results are always the same in the end.
The only exception has been exercise which does make me feel marginally better and I can see the physical changes to my body.
Any "work" that has had anything to do with other people has lead to nothing.
 

uncle

Active member
It mean different things to different people.......For me I have to work (Heavy construction) because I have a wife and kids. I hate saying this but.....It not about me anymore, it about them. Although I wonder if I am just teaching my kids they must suffer and sacrafise because thats what parents do.....IDK.....I'm not the type of person that can just run away from there responsibiltys, too many people do and thats why the divorce rate is so high.
 
I find that when i am lacking motivation, depressed, bed-ridden, etc, that my suffering only lingers or gets even worse (start entertaining thoughts of doom'n'gloom & suicide again) if i don't "try hard" to do things even though i don't feel like doing anything at all.
But once i start doing more things, then it progressively becomes easier (ie less "hard work").
 

vj288

not actually Fiona Apple
I think a better way of thinking of it is if you work hard now you'll be able to relax/things will be easier later on. I don't think it's saying suffering won't happen at all, but spacing it out maybe would lessen it to an unnoticeable degree, or it's nice to get things out of the way.

I have a few examples that come to mind. The first is homework. If you have a lot of homework due is a week let's say, and you put it off until the end, you'll have a miserable time trying to finish it all at the last minute. Or you can just not do it all, and your grade would suffer greatly from the lack of hard work.

A second is in sports or exercise. Anyone who works out will tell you it's hard and usually not fun, especially at the start. It's very tiring and your sore afterward, it's not very pleasant. Then over time it doesn't become easy, but you do start to get better at it and it's not as difficult, even when pushing your hardest. And you're able to see the results. You're healthier, faster, stronger, thinner, whatever. In that respect, you're not suffering in comparison to how you would have had you not done the work, or basically you're glad after the fact you did it. This can seen even more clearly on the sports field, where if you practice hard it really shows against your competition as you get good results. If you slack off, you lose badly and get bad results. Hard work=good results.

A third is in working. If you work hard in school, you can work to get a good job, work hard their and get paid well (if that's what you want). Even not in school, if you do the best you can in your work you can save money over a lifetime, and have a nice retirement, or have many accolades to look back on our life with.

Basically, working hard now is like planting the seeds of rewards you will sow later on. If you don't work hard, your field is going to be barren.
 
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