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mikebird

mikebird

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My root problem is that I get rejected by everyone - family, friends and prominently at work. It takes a while to happen, but I can see it coming from a long way off. Even in a brief meeting - on the phone, in a doc's surgery, however short, or after my longest ever period at work - 3 months...

People want to get rid of me, ASAP.

Before I got here, I was reading about negative people, energy vampires and emotional vampires.

I want to solve this, and I know the solution is not simply "being nice" or brave enuff to smile, or show imaginary confidence. There's lots more underneath to fix. I've dug my own hole, stuck by myself for over 10 years.

"Getting on" with people seems futile.
 
goldatom

goldatom

Well-known member
Most of us, if not all of us, feel this way. I want to think of it as chronic pain. If I let it get to me then I am hurt more. If I ignore it then I'm hurt less.
 
mikebird

mikebird

Banned
So

What's this?

"My leading client require an experienced SQL Developer to join their growing team..."

Oohhhhh!! Never saw this before! Only about 20 times of every single day of my life...

What's 'leading'? The.. BEST of the BEST... of the... BEST...The.. BEST of the BEST... of the... BEST...The.. BEST of the BEST... of the... BEST...The.. BEST of the BEST... of the... BEST...The.. BEST of the BEST... of the... BEST...The.. BEST of the BEST... of the... BEST...The.. BEST of the BEST... of the... BEST...The.. BEST of the BEST... of the... BEST...The.. BEST of the BEST... of the... BEST...

Ooohhhhh, of course I will!!!! Of course I will! I will do as told. I'll come and suck for you.

Ahhh.. before that... let me just pop in... saying "hello Sir!" I'll just fasten this lead round your neck.. and... whooooooooooof!! Your head popped off! Who's next?

Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeek!!
 
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dyingtolive

Well-known member
hey, i dont know what to make of ur last post.. did u just get fired?

so, do u got bad vibes"? what do u think r the leading causes of it?
are u the type who likes to complain alot? always focus on the negative?



what i do when i try to be friendly is i try to remember myself in context with a person whom i have a good relationship with. do u have any friends?

imagine ur just 'continuing' a conversaion with a close friend. and that everyone u meet is that person. :)

hope this helps
 
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