Anonymous
Well-known member
Hey guys. This is a problem that has been plaguing me for quite some time. I have SA really badly and when I am in a social situation which is rarely, I shut down, and when I am talking to the person I will just say the first thing that comes to mind. Is this normal, or in the back of my mind should I be playing out the situation and deciding what to say next, like it's all pre-arranged??
I am in college and have roomates.. I notice they talk really fast and I feel like I talk slow and stupidly compared to them. Do they just say the first thing that pops into their mind, and if they don't, how the heck can they think so fast as to say the right thing all the time? As you can see, I'm plagued by this....
I just wish I could know what everyone else was thinking so I would know that I'm not so different... I'm so nervous, I have a class tomorrow where we have to do teamwork.. I'll try not to shutdown but I am so worried about being rejected.
I am in college and have roomates.. I notice they talk really fast and I feel like I talk slow and stupidly compared to them. Do they just say the first thing that pops into their mind, and if they don't, how the heck can they think so fast as to say the right thing all the time? As you can see, I'm plagued by this....
I just wish I could know what everyone else was thinking so I would know that I'm not so different... I'm so nervous, I have a class tomorrow where we have to do teamwork.. I'll try not to shutdown but I am so worried about being rejected.