Bittersweet
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I befriended a guy from a support group.
He's very nice and we seem to get along really well.
We started hanging out just about every day.
The last time we got together was two Fridays ago.
He said he'd call me and we planned to get together Tuesday.
He called Tuesday and said he wasn't feeling well and said let's get together Thursday.
Thursday afternoon he called and said he hadn't felt like getting together, but he'd decided to go to a movie with people from the support group.
I began to feel like he was brushing me off, but wasn't comfortable being honest about it.
I began to distance myself from him. He noticed a change and began to initiate approaching me. He called and asked if I was alright and if he'd done anything. I told him I thought he wanted space so I was trying to give it to him. He assured me that wasn't the case.
We seemed to get along well again, and he asked if I had plans Thursday. I called him last night to see how he was doing. He never returned my call.
Today he hasn't called me again and I'm not sure how to take it.
When I confront him about these things he assures me that it's not me, he's just not feeling well.
If someone isn't feeling well, it seems like they wouldn't be able to go to the movies either.
This is the third or fourth time he's cancelled plans. The first two times I can understand, but after that, it seems like he's just brushing me off.
Still, if I distance myself from him, he begins to initiate contact and seems interested.
Is this a misunderstanding, or is this his way of dropping a hint?
He's very nice and we seem to get along really well.
We started hanging out just about every day.
The last time we got together was two Fridays ago.
He said he'd call me and we planned to get together Tuesday.
He called Tuesday and said he wasn't feeling well and said let's get together Thursday.
Thursday afternoon he called and said he hadn't felt like getting together, but he'd decided to go to a movie with people from the support group.
I began to feel like he was brushing me off, but wasn't comfortable being honest about it.
I began to distance myself from him. He noticed a change and began to initiate approaching me. He called and asked if I was alright and if he'd done anything. I told him I thought he wanted space so I was trying to give it to him. He assured me that wasn't the case.
We seemed to get along well again, and he asked if I had plans Thursday. I called him last night to see how he was doing. He never returned my call.
Today he hasn't called me again and I'm not sure how to take it.
When I confront him about these things he assures me that it's not me, he's just not feeling well.
If someone isn't feeling well, it seems like they wouldn't be able to go to the movies either.
This is the third or fourth time he's cancelled plans. The first two times I can understand, but after that, it seems like he's just brushing me off.
Still, if I distance myself from him, he begins to initiate contact and seems interested.
Is this a misunderstanding, or is this his way of dropping a hint?