Too nervous to kiss???

[Burntfaceman]

Ok so this will probably sound stupid but here goes

I am going out with an amazing girl.
Everything is great EXCEPT i am fully paranoid about kissing her.
I have never kissed a girl (except for a couple of drunken parties which i cant remember anyway) and i am scared sh*tless

What if i do it wrong? What if she dosn't want to?
I dont know what to do, i feel so down because i really want to but am so scared.

sorry if this sounds really pathetic.
please HELP ME!!!

 

[vj288]

Don't think, just do.

 

[KiaKaha]

Its not pathetic, you just haven't done it before (sober I mean ) so its perfectly natural to feel worried about it. The hardest part is over.. you have found an amazing girl who likes you, the rest should be easy... just wait for the right moment, and then when it feels right go for it....dont worry about if you are not sure if she wants to...trust me..she will let you know...

and besides you never know, she might be just as nervous as you are... just let your lips do the talking and go hard.. you are in for a treat...

 

[mismeek]

I went to this ...i guess you would call it a seminar..on my campus called "may i kiss you?" It talked about how so girls find it respectful if a guy asks before he kisses a girl for the first time. Maybe you should just ask if you can kiss her. It might take some of the anxiety out of it because you'll know she wants to be kissed. as for the kissing act itself...well just go slow.. start with a couple of pecks, and just let her increase the pressure and intensity. Dont just start sucking on her face..despite popular belief, girls hate that lmao

relax! if she likes you she will be patient!

 

[MsBuzzkillington]

I was thinking the same thing as mismeek. If you are unsure if she wants to or not, just ask her. Even if you just blurt it out really fast. It would take away a little bit of the worry of "going in for it" and her moving away.

But she likes you, she's spending time with you. So she will want to, don't worry about that.

 

[gals]

Ok so this will probably sound stupid but here goes

I am going out with an amazing girl.
Everything is great EXCEPT i am fully paranoid about kissing her.
I have never kissed a girl (except for a couple of drunken parties which i cant remember anyway) and i am scared sh*tless

What if i do it wrong? What if she dosn't want to?
I dont know what to do, i feel so down because i really want to but am so scared.

sorry if this sounds really pathetic.
please HELP ME!!!

Well, it's best to be a gentleman and be considerate. Just be honest and ask her nicely, "Can I kiss you?" As simple and as sincere question like that can give you a yes or no.

 

[Burntfaceman]

Haha thanks guys

Youve really helped me
Ill try it