Tired of trying?

[Brokenx]

Do you ever just feel fed up of trying with some people?

I don't know why but i get offended really easy, and some people make me feel like crap although i know they are not doing it on purpose.

Ever feel like your not good enough to speak to some people?

What do you think, just avoid them or what??

 

[Array]

Yes and i hate it! Also wonder why no one messages me and asks how i am doing! It seems like im always the one making an effort! Always the one asking how they are going! Which makes you wonder if they really want to hear from you!

 

[Brokenx]

Yes and i hate it! Also wonder why no one messages me and asks how i am doing! It seems like im always the one making an effort! Always the one asking how they are going! Which makes you wonder if they really want to hear from you!

I totally get that, sometimes i think to myself, why am i putting all this effort it? this person obviously doesn't want to be my friend all that much.

 

[VirgoBlues]

Yea I know some people like that. Seems our style of communication just doesn't mesh well. I avoid them unless necessary.

 

[Psycho Sushi]

Yes and i hate it! Also wonder why no one messages me and asks how i am doing! It seems like im always the one making an effort! Always the one asking how they are going! Which makes you wonder if they really want to hear from you!

I'm relieved to know I'm not alone in this. I often feel like I'm putting all the effort in with quite a few people, and because I'm insecure I end up withdrawing because if the other person doesn't reciprocate, then they must not like me that much. But I'm overly sensitive anyway, so I wonder if I'm reading too much into it.

 

[SPV]

Funny thing because there's this guy in my class who just wouldn't give up trying to talk to me despite how much of a disappointment I've been.
It's already been months now and he still is. I really feel bad that it's not gonna work out between me and him cuz he does seem like a nice guy to hang out with... :'(

 

[BourgeoisBlues]

Yeah definitely. There are plenty of people that I've been around that I have been nice to who have been completely rude to me in return. I can't stand that and I honestly don't understand it. I don't understand what compels someone to be rude and obnoxious to someone who's being nice to them; someone who doesn't even deserve that kind of reaction...I try to avoid them and if I walk by them I don't make eye contact or even acknowledge that they exist.