I´m not very good at computers, but I want to advise that the troll takes different names similar to ours. I just know you´re awared of this; but I think the problem is worse, I mean Last day, I only was allowed to write two or three posts, a thing that never happens to me.
The troll
- Thread starter Felicidad
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Satine
Well-known member
We're all limited to 7 posts in a 24 hour period - are you sure that's not what happened to you?
Yes, I've seen him log in as mariamaria, violettear and so on. I'm just waiting for a Satine-esque name to pop up.
I think he's trying to get us to sympathise with him by posing as people who are his friends. At least to a certain degree anyway - he keeps on blowing his cover by using these same accounts to post pornographic images.
I don't lack sympathy with his situation, but personally I'm not prepared to engage with him any more. Misogyny really gets my back up, so he's not earning himself any brownie points with me for that. And the stalking thing just sets me on edge. I don't feel I an relax here - I keep on making sure that I don't say anything that gives him a clue about where else I go on the 'net.
I'm hoping he'll go soon and seek proper, professional help. I still feel strongly that he needs that. It's unfair to expect it to fall on our shoulders to help him, as our lack of expertise/the depth of his problems will invariably undermine any socializing he does here.
It's a sad situation, but I hope he does choose to go.
Yes, I've seen him log in as mariamaria, violettear and so on. I'm just waiting for a Satine-esque name to pop up.
I think he's trying to get us to sympathise with him by posing as people who are his friends. At least to a certain degree anyway - he keeps on blowing his cover by using these same accounts to post pornographic images.
I don't lack sympathy with his situation, but personally I'm not prepared to engage with him any more. Misogyny really gets my back up, so he's not earning himself any brownie points with me for that. And the stalking thing just sets me on edge. I don't feel I an relax here - I keep on making sure that I don't say anything that gives him a clue about where else I go on the 'net.
I'm hoping he'll go soon and seek proper, professional help. I still feel strongly that he needs that. It's unfair to expect it to fall on our shoulders to help him, as our lack of expertise/the depth of his problems will invariably undermine any socializing he does here.
It's a sad situation, but I hope he does choose to go.
j_brown87
Banned
Satine said:
yea, what he wants is constant admiration, attention,... and he is way to sensitive to being rejected, he takes everything as a rejection, theres no way someone can make him happy, its impossible, you would have to care for him like you care for a baby,
so yea he needs professional help. it was not a joke what he has been doing
i think he is gone though, saw him logged on here today manytimes with his many usernames and no new post to be seen from him.
could be he got scared that his isp was contacted, iam sure he doesnt like that at all, and in a weird way i feel sorry for him, i know he didnt mean anything bad, he didnt want to do what he did, i understand him, you cant control yourself when your that sensitve to rejection and all alone.
j_brown87
Banned
lets not talk about him anymore, we are just doing what he wants, he wants to be the center of everything, i assume he has a narcissism personality disorder like me. i can identify with what he is doing, coz i have been doing this myself online many times, when i was feeling very down, there was just no stoping it,
i kept on writing abusive stuf on other sites to members, in order to get sympathy, i still do it at times, its so weird, i write abusive stuff coz iam frustrated for being rejected and after a while i try to make the one i abused see iam being unjust done, that iam the victim, to make him see iam just a normal nice person lol, its weird to explain, its painfull though
and thats what lonelylooser is doing here.
i would say narcissism personality disorder developed coz of my stupid parents, i could never please them, and thought unjust was being done to me all the time,
iam sure i have it, i fit all criteria except that i still can feel empathy to other people. Despite my social anxiety, there are many days i feel grandiose, special. like theres no one else who is as good as me, or i keep fantasizing about what a good life i will have when i get over SA.
i am happy i got it, when iam in this state, i can think clearly and have true believe i am smart enough to get over SA.
and the fact that i just keep on talking about myself in every thread haha. forgive me for that, its automatic
i kept on writing abusive stuf on other sites to members, in order to get sympathy, i still do it at times, its so weird, i write abusive stuff coz iam frustrated for being rejected and after a while i try to make the one i abused see iam being unjust done, that iam the victim, to make him see iam just a normal nice person lol, its weird to explain, its painfull though
and thats what lonelylooser is doing here.
i would say narcissism personality disorder developed coz of my stupid parents, i could never please them, and thought unjust was being done to me all the time,
iam sure i have it, i fit all criteria except that i still can feel empathy to other people. Despite my social anxiety, there are many days i feel grandiose, special. like theres no one else who is as good as me, or i keep fantasizing about what a good life i will have when i get over SA.
i am happy i got it, when iam in this state, i can think clearly and have true believe i am smart enough to get over SA.
and the fact that i just keep on talking about myself in every thread haha. forgive me for that, its automatic