The internal flame

[Kat]

Do you think after a while in most relationships the spark goes away and even though you love each other very much it becomes more like a friendship? Would you consider that to be a normal and pretty common thing to happen or when the spark is gone it’s game over for the relationship?

 

[notoriouskandikane]

No not at all, thats a very normal thing for a relationship. At the start of a relationship there is, what is called, a `honeymoon period` where everything is bliss and perfect and you could never imagine it going wrong. But as you spend more time with each other, you get used to each other therefore that early relationship spark dissolves a little, but it doesnt mean the relationship is going down the drain. Youve just become used to each other. There are many ways to keep a spark going in a relationship.

 

[Chilling__Echo]

Mature love is different from romantic love. And, though friendship is involved, there is much more. Because you've been through so much together and come out the other side there is unconditional trust. There is overpowering joy in the other's successes, and their disappointments feel like your own.
But you still get the warm connecting feeling just seeing your partner across the room.

awesome harvey, i couldn't think of a better way to put it. and i think that's the biggest problem couples face in the future and the source of marital dissatisfaction. plus our society today is so rushed and complicated, it's hard to rekindle that flame

 

[young]

I had an internal flame once. Turned out it was just the "clap" 8O

 

[Chilling__Echo]

:lol:

 

[Septor]

A lot of time the spark goes out of a relationship after certain amount of time because the people involve start to take each other for granted.It becomes something normal and there just suppose to be there.Instead of something special and be glad they're there.

 

[Remus]

got any links coz I cant find a thing?

I know my gran was still in love with my grampa when he died, they were like teenagers, when he died she didnt live much longer, she was heartbroken and just couldnt live without him.

 

[Remus]

maybe you got mixed up with my words?

I fully understood what you were saying, I just completly disagree with it

I also did say my gran and grampa were very much inlove in my comment

if its on the net or the radio dosnt exactly make it true now does it :lol:

 

[Remus]

unless you got links it just looks like you are making it up :roll:

I've seen far to many examples of long term relationships and couples still being "inlove" and not just loving each other.

get your facts straight and then come to me with a decent arguement

 

[Toad]

if its on the net or the radio dosnt exactly make it true now does it :lol:

Yes, it does make it true.

Well shit...everything on the internet is true...geeze that's amazing, because now the world is flat and earth is the center of the universe...here is my proof...

http://www.alaska.net/~clund/e_djublonskopf/FlatWhyFlat.htm

As they state at the conclusion "Obviously, the world is static, the fixed center of the Universe. The sun, planets and stars all revolve around it (although not necessarily in circular paths), in a plane level with the flat Earth."

 

[Septor]

I know what your talking next level.I don't know where I read about it probably in some science magazine but the research is still beginning stages so the jury still out on how true it is.

 

[pea]

ed

 

[Kat]

That was very interesting thanks for the research

 

[lovemylas]

meaning of life anyone?

Hey, something I know, finally. Can't tell though. :wink: