RedRibbons
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...And that's what I have to say about that.
So! What's your point of view? Share it.. And perhaps someone with another point of view might be able to take you on a tour through their pasture.
My Grass:
Having sex when the person doesn't mean much to you, and your reasons aren't well founded, sucks.
In my pasture, it's stupid to have sex when you don't really care or know the person well, because it doesn't change anything, other than the fact that you had sex, and that might be all well and nice physically but... It does have the potential to destroy you more emotionally, and being emotionally fracked, sucks.
When I had stupid sex, I ended up feeling very emotionally hurt and disgusted with myself. I got depressed feelings, and anxiety. I felt like a whore. And I still carry the burden of that emotional damage to this day.
You might think you're resolving some big issue, but you're not, if anything you will keep yearning for that satisfaction you thought you would get - that you didn't get, and make your issue worse. At least that's how it worked for me.
If you don't require deep meaningful relationships, go ahead and have all the wild and crazy sex your little heart can desire.. IF all you want is some physical satisfaction/intimacy.
My Advice:
Honestly, save yourself for someone that you care for and that cares for you, if that's what you REALLY want. Someone who you know and that knows you.
From my point of view, people who haven't had sex, or those who have had meaningful sex tend to be more focused on things that are not SEX. And this is good. They are more pure. They are not picking up every hint of sexual innuendo that there is.. Basically their minds are more clean and nice.
So! What's your point of view? Share it.. And perhaps someone with another point of view might be able to take you on a tour through their pasture.
My Grass:
Having sex when the person doesn't mean much to you, and your reasons aren't well founded, sucks.
In my pasture, it's stupid to have sex when you don't really care or know the person well, because it doesn't change anything, other than the fact that you had sex, and that might be all well and nice physically but... It does have the potential to destroy you more emotionally, and being emotionally fracked, sucks.
When I had stupid sex, I ended up feeling very emotionally hurt and disgusted with myself. I got depressed feelings, and anxiety. I felt like a whore. And I still carry the burden of that emotional damage to this day.
You might think you're resolving some big issue, but you're not, if anything you will keep yearning for that satisfaction you thought you would get - that you didn't get, and make your issue worse. At least that's how it worked for me.
If you don't require deep meaningful relationships, go ahead and have all the wild and crazy sex your little heart can desire.. IF all you want is some physical satisfaction/intimacy.
My Advice:
Honestly, save yourself for someone that you care for and that cares for you, if that's what you REALLY want. Someone who you know and that knows you.
From my point of view, people who haven't had sex, or those who have had meaningful sex tend to be more focused on things that are not SEX. And this is good. They are more pure. They are not picking up every hint of sexual innuendo that there is.. Basically their minds are more clean and nice.
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And no, I don't mean "GRASS" lol.. Well I mean we could talk about that grass too.. Cause I'm sure people have a thing or two to share about THAT experience, or lack there of!