The Amazing Invisble Woman

[Unfufilled101]

So here it is, do you ever feel like your invisible, like the whole world is just passing you by and not taking any notice. On one hand it's good because you don't want people to stare at your or be judging you know or talking about you, like the whole world is looking at you because you're so different. But on the other hand you want people to notice you, to see you, to acknowlegde your existence, to say hi because you know that if they don't initiate conversation you'll never have the guts to just say hi yourself, and you'll just be alone.

So, to be seen, or not to be seen? You've seen the question, what is the answer?

Hopelessly Conflicted :?

 

[miss_amy]

I have exactly the same conflict. One side of me says please talk to me, I'm lonely and want to be friends, the other side of me wants people to stay away and leave me alone because it scares me.

Don't know what the answer is.

 

[misternobody]

Same with me. I am so lonely and wish I had friends but I am totally invisable and, each time I am going to go to the store, I always, before I leave to go, wish so much that something could happen where people will talk to me, like somehow to have someone who likes what I like. What I like are DVDs and, so, it would be great for something to happen but, since it never has happened for me, I am sure it won't ever cause I am so invisable.

And ok, if ever you were with a family member or something when out at a store, and they stop and talk to someone they know at the store, notice how you are totally ignored as if you are not even with anyone? it happens to me many times! it sure does not feel good

 

[miss_amy]

They ignore me because I'm too busy hiding behind something so they don't talk to me!

I'll talk to you Mrnobody. I'm sure you are really nice.

I bet you are not invisable, just giving out the 'don't approach me' signals that anxiety gives us.

 

[Kien]

It's also lovely when the girl you're in love with passes by just to stop 2m away and start talking to your co-worker buddy.

 

[redski]

Rats, I just made a new post about this and then found this thread.
I have the same thing. Makes me feel bad.

I remember a girl once I was completely into and I tried showing her,
as best as I can with SA and all, and she was flirting right in front of me with my then best friend.
Made me feel completely see through.

 

[Apple Strudel]

I usually treat people as invisible. And some people do that to me too. The feeling is mutual.

 

[Hellhound]

Yes... even if I speak to them they just keep doing what they are doing or talking to each other. There's days in where I'm completely ignored. Maybe I truly don't exist?

 

[LazyHermitCrab]

usually give a weak hi or a nodd if its only me and one other person walking past on a sidewalk or something similar