chibiXphantom
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over the years people have told me i'm not good with conversation, get frustrated with me for short answers, not asking them questions, etc.
i've really been working on my conversation skills through reading books, reading online tips, the help of a friend, and just practicing when i can.
for the first time in my life i've actually had someone say to me, "You know, it's nice to talk to someone who actually knows how to hold a conversation for once."
that was like three days ago, and i still feel proud of myself lol
i've been kind of looking at it as a game. they say something, you pick up on things they mentioned and form a question around it. dig deeper. it's easier to keep the conversation off of yourself and talk less if you just keep asking them things and get them talking about themselves. they'll think you're a good conversationalist when you've barely said much lol.
i've really been working on my conversation skills through reading books, reading online tips, the help of a friend, and just practicing when i can.
for the first time in my life i've actually had someone say to me, "You know, it's nice to talk to someone who actually knows how to hold a conversation for once."
that was like three days ago, and i still feel proud of myself lol
i've been kind of looking at it as a game. they say something, you pick up on things they mentioned and form a question around it. dig deeper. it's easier to keep the conversation off of yourself and talk less if you just keep asking them things and get them talking about themselves. they'll think you're a good conversationalist when you've barely said much lol.