Stop Judging Youself.

[NewPoster111]

REPETITIONS THAT HELPED ME

--I'm way cooler than these guys (before you go into a social situation, think about the people you know are going to be there. List out the things you don't like about them- the way they wear their hair, the clothes they wear, if they always try to be funny) Read these and that will boost your self-confidence
--I want to come off as a happy and funny person who likes to have a good time. (YOU HAVE TO HAVE AN IDEA OF WHO YOU WANT TO BE BEFORE YOU CAN BEAT SA. THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BE HAS TO HAVE SOMETHING TO DO WITH WHO YOU REALLY ARE. SINCE I WAS FUNNY AND EXTROVERTED BEFORE I HAD SA, I CHOSE MY GOAL TO BE A HAPPY, FUNNY PERSON)
--I don't care about how I'm coming off (THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT ONE)

Hope it helps

 

[SickJoke]

Something that helps me is that, instead of trying to make others laugh, I make myself laugh. If I'm genuinely enjoying myself and having a good time, others around me will pick up on my vibe and enjoy my company as well.

 

[j_brown2]

Agree, it's really mostly about body language, sounding confident or funny. So entertaining yourself works

A guy who is not smart, if he says something in a confident way people will most likely believe what he says is true,

A guy can say something that's not funny at all in a funny way and people will laugh...

If on the other hand you say something that's really funny in a not fun way, no one will laugh

 

[danstelter]

Exactly. Don't give a shit about what everyone else says and just go out there and have yourself a good time! If people don't like what you have to say, oh well. Everyone has their critics and eventually you'll find a group of people who do like what you have to say!