Sperm fear???!!

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mizzou99

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Aight so i dont think i rly have ocd but heres my problem. I don't rly have a fear of my own sperm but (i kno this is going to sound weird) i fear my bros because I accidently caught him on his comp. doin his thing. I walked away and went into my room and then my bathroom. I then saw him walk into the bathroom and throw tissues into the trash (our rooms are connected by a bathroom). He immediatly walked back into his room and did not wash his hands. Now im usually fine w/ sperm and all but this just annoys me and kind of grosses me out. I think its just common curtosy to wash after masturbation Anyway i kind of worry about touchin somthin like a doorknob that he just touched. Is this worth worrying about or should i do sumthin about it. If so what can i do. I dont think i can be like wash your hands when your done cus that is akward and he would be like how do you kno. Does it matter if you dont wash after you masturbate and touch things? Just give me your opinion on this and tell me what you would do.
 
Danfalc

Danfalc

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I dont have ocd,but I think that would gross pretty much anyone out..But try not to let it affect you and become a problem.

Maybe try and shame yourbrother about it in a joking way,so next time he at leasts washes his hands.
 
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Krista

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I produce none of my own sperm but I could see where that would be gross. I'm sure it seems kinda rude to say wash your hands after your done with Lefty and Righty but my suggestion would be to keep sanitary wipes around. Honestly. They're great for grabbing door handles or wiping things down and if questioned just say you don't want to get swine flu.

Or say you don't want his baby making juice all over the place, wash your damn hands.
 
Off The Wall

Off The Wall

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Haha. It is kind of gross.. special your own brothers sperm germs.. kind of ew. Nothing you can really do about it unless you tell him to wash his hands.. but you aren't going to catch anything from touching the door knob after him or anything.. it's gross when you know but you've probably touched it before not knowing... most people don't wash their hands at the end of the day.. totally gross.. but they don't.

I've told people to wash their hands before they get all defensive like Um i did.. Um no you came out right after the flush there was no time to wash.. haha. Kind of awkward but i dont want their germs in my food or anything haha.
 
Brokenx

Brokenx

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I think the only thing you can do is tell him to wash his hands, because if it's on your mind you have to say something too him.
Does he know you seen him?
 
Misterhopefull

Misterhopefull

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I'm curious if you wash your hands after you do things like pick your nose or scratch your ass etc...

There might be someone watching you!
 
Noca

Noca

Banned
Its gross but unless he has an STD, I dont think your going to get any illnesses from touching his bedroom door knob.
 
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Rockhopper

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I don't think this is necessarily OCD. It is quite normal to be grossed out by this. I discovered my BF doesn't wash his hands after a poo. I've had to tell him, but he thinks I'm nagging. It's always on my mind now when he comes out of the toilet and I'm always checking to see if his hands are wet or smell like soap. Now he's finding my checking annoying, but if he's going to be touching me, or preparing my meals, well I think I have the right to say something. He also doesn't wash his hands after sex which may have more than just sperm. I have to tell him that too and just remind him where his hands have been. I don't get how you can't find that gross, but I think it's completely normal to want to say something.

I'd just tell him outright that it's gross. If he asks just tell him you saw him, it may embarrass him, but it may make him start washing his hands.
 
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Interzone

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Yeah, it's pretty gross, the only time I usually don't wash my hands when I get out of the bathroom is when I pee freehand. Even so I usually do a little water rinse. Otherwise it's the full hand-wash with soap treatment...
 
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