Like I've said before, I'm a recovering SP, so I'm starting to get out and do more things that I didn't used to do. Like dating for instance.
My very first date was last Saturday. My buddy set me up on a blind date with one of his friends from a local town. We had a good time, and she seems like a really sweet girl, but something isn't right. What I mean by that, is that I don't exactly have a reputation for being the coolest, hottest guy, etc in school. Which, obviously, this amazingly beautiful cheerleader girl who now proclaims me as her boyfriend, doesn't care about. Obviously, no one at school believes me, so I'm forced to rely on the ones that were there to vouch for me (they already had gf's they were meeting up with)
Anyway...
Something about this isn't right. At the end of the date, she told me to call her, and that we "so have to start hanging out", etc. So... I called her. But, I got her sister instead. EVERYTIME I CALL, her sister picks up. It's always some bullshit excuse too... "Oh, she's in the shower, she's not here, she's sleeping". Then I talk with her sister for a while hoping it might score me brownie points with Kayla. Most of what we talk about partains to my relationship with Kayla, and I've found out some stuff I didn't know. Like, she REALLY REALLY likes me, and that she's dying for another date, but she didn't know that I liked her by the way I acted on the date.
Monday:
I was very close to Kayla's house, golfing with a friend, when I decided to call and see if she wanted to hang out for a little while. Of course, Kayla wasn't there, but her sister was, and she wanted to go see her boyfriend. Well, I said no, but then she said that Kayla would show up at the guy's house later on, so being a sucker, I gave in. Hours went by, no Kayla. I took her home, and went home myself. On the way home with her, I told her that I'd like to set something up for Wednesday night, and she said that Kayla would really like that.
Every call from there on out, no Kayla. Unfortunately, her sister is ALWAYS willing to talk.
Wednesday:
I call and confirm the date for last night, and yes, it's still on, unfortunately though, Kayla's sleeping. Her sister BEGGED me to go pick up her BF, so I did, and we went over towards the movie theatre where we were supposed to meet up. 2 hours late. We got worried, so we went to her friend's house where we hung out on Saturday. No Kayla, no sister. Story was that they were supposed to meet us at the theatre. So, I called her house. Dad answered (drunk), and said that they both went to the movies.
So, we drove around, looking for ANY sign that something might be up (car wreck, a friend of hers), but found none, so I made the last move I could have made. I called my buddy and had him Google the phone number, get an address, and directions to her house, and we went there.
When we got there, we both introduced ourselves, and the had a little trouble keeping on subject. Drunk, obviously. Anyway, we found out that my little gf Kayla went to a party last night and she too had too much to drink, and had been sleeping the ENTIRE DAY. She was in the room in the back. This dissapointed me. We later fished it out of her father that her sister left, and he didn't know where she went if she wasn't at the movies, so something was up.
I did talk to her dad a little bit and he said that he's heard A LOT about me, and that she REALLY likes me. I believe him. This guy was spilling his guts to us... telling us about his past life, troubles that are going on now, and why he's drinking right then. Either way, I scored in good with her father, and he really likes me a lot. I was offered several things, beer, cigarette, hard liquor, etc, all of which I turned down and he congratulated me on.
After a little while, Kayla's dad mentioned once again that Kayla was in the back room and I could go wake her up if I wanted to, but being a gentleman, I turned it down to let her sleep. Her dad then said that he was gonna go wake her up because she's been sleeping all day and he "knows she wants to see" me. I followed. He went into the room and pulled back the covers and I heard her say "what the hell?" and he said
"Your knight in shining armor is here to rescue you!"
"Not you." she said
"Pfft. No. It's that guy you went out on a date with Saturday. I told him everything you said about him being so sweet, and romantic."
"(sweet but tired voice) He really is. Shining armor... yeah." then she went back to sleep.
We went back into the living room where we watched a Lynard Skynard video for a few minutes, then Kayla's sister showed up and hung around with her boyfriend who was with me. She told me that Kayla was all ready to go, but not long after I hung up from calling to say that I was leaving, she threw up all over and went back to bed. Then, for some reason, Kayla's sister decided to go to church, so that's where she was at the whole time.
Her sister hung out with her bf for a while. That went by for an hour or so, and I decided it was time to go. I was very devistated that I didn't get to hang out with Kayla.
So...
I guess it's understandable that she was obviously sick, and couldn't go, but what's eating at me is that I never can catch her on the phone. It's not that I'm calling at the wrong times, because I don't think that I am. She's never called here. But, everyone (her sister and her dad) reassures me that she really really likes me.
I can't figure this out. Is there something I'm missing?
My very first date was last Saturday. My buddy set me up on a blind date with one of his friends from a local town. We had a good time, and she seems like a really sweet girl, but something isn't right. What I mean by that, is that I don't exactly have a reputation for being the coolest, hottest guy, etc in school. Which, obviously, this amazingly beautiful cheerleader girl who now proclaims me as her boyfriend, doesn't care about. Obviously, no one at school believes me, so I'm forced to rely on the ones that were there to vouch for me (they already had gf's they were meeting up with)
Anyway...
Something about this isn't right. At the end of the date, she told me to call her, and that we "so have to start hanging out", etc. So... I called her. But, I got her sister instead. EVERYTIME I CALL, her sister picks up. It's always some bullshit excuse too... "Oh, she's in the shower, she's not here, she's sleeping". Then I talk with her sister for a while hoping it might score me brownie points with Kayla. Most of what we talk about partains to my relationship with Kayla, and I've found out some stuff I didn't know. Like, she REALLY REALLY likes me, and that she's dying for another date, but she didn't know that I liked her by the way I acted on the date.
Monday:
I was very close to Kayla's house, golfing with a friend, when I decided to call and see if she wanted to hang out for a little while. Of course, Kayla wasn't there, but her sister was, and she wanted to go see her boyfriend. Well, I said no, but then she said that Kayla would show up at the guy's house later on, so being a sucker, I gave in. Hours went by, no Kayla. I took her home, and went home myself. On the way home with her, I told her that I'd like to set something up for Wednesday night, and she said that Kayla would really like that.
Every call from there on out, no Kayla. Unfortunately, her sister is ALWAYS willing to talk.
Wednesday:
I call and confirm the date for last night, and yes, it's still on, unfortunately though, Kayla's sleeping. Her sister BEGGED me to go pick up her BF, so I did, and we went over towards the movie theatre where we were supposed to meet up. 2 hours late. We got worried, so we went to her friend's house where we hung out on Saturday. No Kayla, no sister. Story was that they were supposed to meet us at the theatre. So, I called her house. Dad answered (drunk), and said that they both went to the movies.
So, we drove around, looking for ANY sign that something might be up (car wreck, a friend of hers), but found none, so I made the last move I could have made. I called my buddy and had him Google the phone number, get an address, and directions to her house, and we went there.
When we got there, we both introduced ourselves, and the had a little trouble keeping on subject. Drunk, obviously. Anyway, we found out that my little gf Kayla went to a party last night and she too had too much to drink, and had been sleeping the ENTIRE DAY. She was in the room in the back. This dissapointed me. We later fished it out of her father that her sister left, and he didn't know where she went if she wasn't at the movies, so something was up.
I did talk to her dad a little bit and he said that he's heard A LOT about me, and that she REALLY likes me. I believe him. This guy was spilling his guts to us... telling us about his past life, troubles that are going on now, and why he's drinking right then. Either way, I scored in good with her father, and he really likes me a lot. I was offered several things, beer, cigarette, hard liquor, etc, all of which I turned down and he congratulated me on.
After a little while, Kayla's dad mentioned once again that Kayla was in the back room and I could go wake her up if I wanted to, but being a gentleman, I turned it down to let her sleep. Her dad then said that he was gonna go wake her up because she's been sleeping all day and he "knows she wants to see" me. I followed. He went into the room and pulled back the covers and I heard her say "what the hell?" and he said
"Your knight in shining armor is here to rescue you!"
"Not you." she said
"Pfft. No. It's that guy you went out on a date with Saturday. I told him everything you said about him being so sweet, and romantic."
"(sweet but tired voice) He really is. Shining armor... yeah." then she went back to sleep.
We went back into the living room where we watched a Lynard Skynard video for a few minutes, then Kayla's sister showed up and hung around with her boyfriend who was with me. She told me that Kayla was all ready to go, but not long after I hung up from calling to say that I was leaving, she threw up all over and went back to bed. Then, for some reason, Kayla's sister decided to go to church, so that's where she was at the whole time.
Her sister hung out with her bf for a while. That went by for an hour or so, and I decided it was time to go. I was very devistated that I didn't get to hang out with Kayla.
So...
I guess it's understandable that she was obviously sick, and couldn't go, but what's eating at me is that I never can catch her on the phone. It's not that I'm calling at the wrong times, because I don't think that I am. She's never called here. But, everyone (her sister and her dad) reassures me that she really really likes me.
I can't figure this out. Is there something I'm missing?