themousethatroared
Well-known member
Have you ever developed a crush on someone only to realize that the person did not share your feelings? Have you had the person tell you that they just wanted to be friends? I had this happen to me lately. I thought I was perfectly fine with it. Friends are good to have I thought. No harm in sharing your feelings towards someone I thought. I thought I was okay with it but I wasn't. I felt rejected and the thought came to me of "Oh no not this again!" These thoughts became increasingly difficult to turn off. Then I wanted to get away from these thoughts so I thought I would stay away from the person. It didn't work. I felt guilty and mean and the person felt hurt. I could not turn back what I had done and do it differently. What is done is done I guess. How do I handle this better in the future? How do I not create a fear of sharing my feelings again?