social phobial and low self esteem

Ubersonic

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RND_CHR said:
does anyone think social phobia and low self esteem corrolate?

Yeah I think they're directly related. If I had high self esteem I wouldn't care what other people think so much.

Now how do you get high self esteem? I don't know. I've been able to trick myself into thinking I'm confident, but that only lasts for a couple days.
 

limetree

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Yup when we can't find validation/affirmation within ourselves we look to others to do that, and being so sensitive to criticism, we can justify our low self-esteem by believing the negative judgements of others and pounding our own "fail" stamp in agreement. :D
 

lyricalliaisons

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For me, my social phobia is what causes most of my self-esteem issues. f If I were able to do the simple things most people take for granted, & had something to talk to people about (if I could talk to people) & someway to relate, I know it would be much higher.
 
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