Lorraine Manca
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if anxiety is being sped up with lots of nervous energy, and depression is being slowed down with no energy, how can you have both of them at the same time?? im so confused
I think they are basically opposite ends of a spectrum... I find myself wavering between them unable to find a happy "middle ground." I also think it's possible to be anxious about some things at the same time as being depressed about others... it's a hard call.
For me, I find that when my anxiety builds to unbearable levels, depression seems to be my body's response to alleviate it- if I stop trying/caring, then I can't be anxious. The problem is, allowing the depression to rule only makes the problems that are causing the anxiety worse. I'm not sure if tackling the depression will help with handling the anxiety, or vice versa- or perhaps I need to treat both.
Whenever anxiety and depression aren't enough, I drink something caffeinated. Then I feel like doing something while not wanting to do anything. I play my guitar faster, but still think I suck. And best of all, my hands shake and my heart beats faster and harder.
Yippee!