ventrilothree
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Howcome they always look at me like they hate me so much? Am I horribly misinterpreting or is it that they really hate me cause i'm not attractive? I didn't do anything wrong to them...
So are most girls bitches or is it just me?
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Ventrilotwo
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i've been told they're supposed to smile if they are attracted, not scowl. I'm pretty sure i know what a scowl is
_Brittany_
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I doubt they hate you. Maybe the one's you've talked to were all just snobs.
Ventrilotwo
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that's what i thought
Simple_guy_VT
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I think all girls are made to do in life is to make me feel bad about myself. They are all bitches.... but face to face, one on one is not that bad, sometimes.....
Ventrilotwo
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ripewithdecay
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Hmm, well it's sorta in their nature to be bitchy sometimes.
Just like it's in a guys nature to be stupid sometimes
Just like it's in a guys nature to be stupid sometimes
Reholla
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Rodox said:
what do you mean by that?
like girls automatically hate guys with low self esteem? i dont think that is true at all.
almost every friend i have has the ability to be bitchy. It doesnt mean they are one. I think a good quality in a girl to have is to be independent/confident in herself, and sometimes to get her point across, because we live in a male dominated world, she has to be kind of a bitch.
i dont think that has anything to do with the view you have of girls "scowling" at you. i think it is partly in your head. what i learned in a psychology class is, the way you think of other people, that same view is reflected in how other people think of you. So if you have this negative opinion on some one, chances are they arent going to like you. Try to have a more positive outlook on girls.
madeup
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I'm curious what your doing when you see these girls.
Are you smiling? Like genuinely smiling?
If your smiling... but your forcing it... it comes across as fake smiling and that generally turns people off because it gives you that used car salesman (I want something from you) kind of vibe.
If your not smiling, it doesn't surprise me that they're not either.
The world is your mirror.
Are you smiling? Like genuinely smiling?
If your smiling... but your forcing it... it comes across as fake smiling and that generally turns people off because it gives you that used car salesman (I want something from you) kind of vibe.
If your not smiling, it doesn't surprise me that they're not either.
The world is your mirror.
proudmummy
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Of course women are gonna be bitches to you if you walk around with a face like a slapped ass 24/7 cos of SA.
Its SA, not women. Blame the SA.
Cure the SA then you'll see...
... and then tell me how you cured it :wink:
Its SA, not women. Blame the SA.
Cure the SA then you'll see...
... and then tell me how you cured it :wink:
Walk
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Ok, these girls that look mean, well, next time, actually talk to them and I will give you my guarantee, that 9/10 of them will NOT be mean. Many people just have serious looking body language when they're not at ease.
Think about it, when you walk in a hall FULL of PEOPLE, are you smiling and greeting everyone?
Just talk to them and try to to see their real self.
Today I managed to have a nice little conversation with a seriously attractive girl at school while we were waiting to speak to a counselor. She looked disinterested at everything at first too.
Think about it, when you walk in a hall FULL of PEOPLE, are you smiling and greeting everyone?
Just talk to them and try to to see their real self.
Today I managed to have a nice little conversation with a seriously attractive girl at school while we were waiting to speak to a counselor. She looked disinterested at everything at first too.
ventrilothree
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I'm not smiling because i don't smile often. But i think even when they come off as nice it seems very forced and fake, which is worse than bitchy.