Shyness/SA in your mate?

HeadFace

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Well? Do you find it attractive? Or would you rather have someone who's more free and outgoing?
Personally, I think shy girls are fuggin adorable. It's attractive, to me. It's also kind of nice since I could be able to relate to them. And we could work through our SA cases together.
Buuut; so far all of my girlfriend's have been more outgoing, and that kind of thing. I guess that's not a bad thing though. It teaches me what people without SA or aren't shy are like, and how to be more free.

But what do you guys think? I don't think I prefer one over the other... But if I had to choose I'd probably end up choosing the shy one. Though it'd be nice to have someone who isn't exactly a partygirl, but not shy.
 

nicknamehere

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Definitely a turn on for me ;) I don't know why though, there's just something that draws me in. Maybe because they're (we're) mysterious that keeps our attention.
 

Mr.Moon

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Shy gals are pretty cute and attractive to me.. Plus I'm pretty easy going. I don't mind going out on a date or something though. I've been with pretty outgoing gals before..its a bore and a nuisance to me.
 

da_illest101

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at first i wanted this but now I don't. If it's really what you are attracted to the go nuts about it. as for myself I realized that I just wanted one to be comfortable with my SA, in a way holding myself back. Now don't get it confused, I will always give a shy girl a fair chance since I know how hard it is, i just don't want myself to give only shy girls a chance because i'm scared of not being understood by others
 
I think all people are cute in a way. The only thing I need to find someone attractive is

1) No aggression/bad temper, (this can make or break it for me)
2) A sense of humor,
3) a reasonably realistic look on life (neither optimistic nor pessimistic),
4) Somewhat honest and marginally thoughtful (doesn't have to be a angel)

From there, I don't mind whether he/she's rough or soft around the edges. Shy people are cute, but so are loud(er) people whom tell you what's what, in my opinion. I don't mind a little dominance either (as long as it doesn't break rule 1). ;3
 
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