Does anyone here often get in the situation where you meet someone that you click with and maybe want to be friends with, but then get to the point where they start finding out about your lack of a social life?
It doesn't happen often - it's hard finding anybody I click with! - but at the moment I'm kinda in that situation. I've been chatting to a girl (via MSN, but we've met in person recently) in our company who works in another branch and we seem to get along pretty well. Thing is she's starting to find out how little I go out and socialise, and it's making me feel like a bit of a loser. I almost feel like not chatting to her anymore because I don't want her to find out anymore about me.
What do you do when you're getting to know someone and they ask you what you do in your weekends etc and you actually do nothing? Tell the truth? Make up stuff? Try and change the topic?
Any advice appreciated.
It doesn't happen often - it's hard finding anybody I click with! - but at the moment I'm kinda in that situation. I've been chatting to a girl (via MSN, but we've met in person recently) in our company who works in another branch and we seem to get along pretty well. Thing is she's starting to find out how little I go out and socialise, and it's making me feel like a bit of a loser. I almost feel like not chatting to her anymore because I don't want her to find out anymore about me.
What do you do when you're getting to know someone and they ask you what you do in your weekends etc and you actually do nothing? Tell the truth? Make up stuff? Try and change the topic?
Any advice appreciated.