ever wished you'd not bothered helping someone?
My mate Gav is hooked on coke and speed, weve been trying to wean him off it for months, where he lives dosnt help as both his mum and his brother are alcoholics, Gav and his mum are so ill ,the other brother is trying to get them both sectioned (I think so he can get the house).Gav tried to take his own life a week back, so I've been worried.
I thought of an idea to get Gav out of the house for a couple of days, go camping with me, have a nice respite, anyway when I got there it was kicking off royally, his mum was having a drunken rant in the back room, all on her own and shouting and bawling.
I went in to calm her down, saying I would be taking Gav away for a few days, get him out of her hair, then she ranted at me "why dont you ever do anything for me, its all Gav Gav Gav", then as alcoholics do went on to say vicious shit about me (anyone who knows one will know what thats like)
anyway....all this heat escalated and I was supposed to be back at home for ten to make a couple of phone calls (and they were very important phone calls so i'm annoyed), instead Gavs going mental, I'm trying to stop him wrecking the house and harming himself, also doing the same with his mum, I told him to come with me and I'd put him up for a few days but he wouldnt, was waiting for his "package" to be dropped off, said its the only cure for this crap he goes through.
I dont know why I bother sometimes :?
he's gonna go camping anyway, hope I can at least try and get through to him
sorry guys, moan over!
My mate Gav is hooked on coke and speed, weve been trying to wean him off it for months, where he lives dosnt help as both his mum and his brother are alcoholics, Gav and his mum are so ill ,the other brother is trying to get them both sectioned (I think so he can get the house).Gav tried to take his own life a week back, so I've been worried.
I thought of an idea to get Gav out of the house for a couple of days, go camping with me, have a nice respite, anyway when I got there it was kicking off royally, his mum was having a drunken rant in the back room, all on her own and shouting and bawling.
I went in to calm her down, saying I would be taking Gav away for a few days, get him out of her hair, then she ranted at me "why dont you ever do anything for me, its all Gav Gav Gav", then as alcoholics do went on to say vicious shit about me (anyone who knows one will know what thats like)
anyway....all this heat escalated and I was supposed to be back at home for ten to make a couple of phone calls (and they were very important phone calls so i'm annoyed), instead Gavs going mental, I'm trying to stop him wrecking the house and harming himself, also doing the same with his mum, I told him to come with me and I'd put him up for a few days but he wouldnt, was waiting for his "package" to be dropped off, said its the only cure for this crap he goes through.
I dont know why I bother sometimes :?
he's gonna go camping anyway, hope I can at least try and get through to him
sorry guys, moan over!