Uglyduckling
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lately I had to take a break from my relationship. I just felt like taking care of me was enough.
Though I took a break, I wanted him to say that he wanted to spend time with me, that he didn't want to take a break. :roll: He said that he missed me so much that week.
I think extremely negative thoughts about myself. that I believe to be all true. I'm slow at work (I stay late and do not get paid for it) I'm not pretty. (I have eczema, it absolutely affects the way I feel about myself) I use so much of my energy not looking at people and never looking in the mirror at myself.
I guess I've become dependent and want to spend alot of time with my bf though he doesn't want to spend the amount of time that I want to spend with him. He makes other plans (I know that this would be normal in any type of relationship). I guess it's so hurtful because he fails to tell me until the end of the day. I can't spend time with you because I made plans to go to the movies with my other friend. I cried about it yesterday and was feeling very hurt. We only see eachother 3 times a week.
He said that he needs time to himself. I guess every person needs this.
I did join the gym and really try to fill my time up with that. Otherwise, I try to avoid going places unless I have to go. (The Fight or Flight Response) eg. My mom needed cough drops so I had to go to the store today, I'm hungry so I have to go grocery shopping, I'm running out of gas so I have to go to the service station
I always procrastinate too, leaving things until the last minute so that they just stress me out. I'm not sure why I do this.
Plus, I lose things all the time, like my keys or my bank card. (My ex used to get mad at me when I lost these things) not this bf, but I tend to get frustrated with myself when this happens.
Plus, I stay up til like 4am so that it affects my concentration and productivity at work. :?
I have no friends besides my bf, I really need to make my life better so that I can be a happier person. I want to be happy.
I hate my job, I hate this city, I don't know what I want to go back to school for, plus I can't save any money, I'm just living from paycheck to paycheck, argh!
Though I took a break, I wanted him to say that he wanted to spend time with me, that he didn't want to take a break. :roll: He said that he missed me so much that week.
I think extremely negative thoughts about myself. that I believe to be all true. I'm slow at work (I stay late and do not get paid for it) I'm not pretty. (I have eczema, it absolutely affects the way I feel about myself) I use so much of my energy not looking at people and never looking in the mirror at myself.
I guess I've become dependent and want to spend alot of time with my bf though he doesn't want to spend the amount of time that I want to spend with him. He makes other plans (I know that this would be normal in any type of relationship). I guess it's so hurtful because he fails to tell me until the end of the day. I can't spend time with you because I made plans to go to the movies with my other friend. I cried about it yesterday and was feeling very hurt. We only see eachother 3 times a week.
He said that he needs time to himself. I guess every person needs this.
I did join the gym and really try to fill my time up with that. Otherwise, I try to avoid going places unless I have to go. (The Fight or Flight Response) eg. My mom needed cough drops so I had to go to the store today, I'm hungry so I have to go grocery shopping, I'm running out of gas so I have to go to the service station
I always procrastinate too, leaving things until the last minute so that they just stress me out. I'm not sure why I do this.
Plus, I lose things all the time, like my keys or my bank card. (My ex used to get mad at me when I lost these things) not this bf, but I tend to get frustrated with myself when this happens.
Plus, I stay up til like 4am so that it affects my concentration and productivity at work. :?
I have no friends besides my bf, I really need to make my life better so that I can be a happier person. I want to be happy.
I hate my job, I hate this city, I don't know what I want to go back to school for, plus I can't save any money, I'm just living from paycheck to paycheck, argh!