Re-wire your brain

Argamemnon

Well-known member
I urge all of you to read this :!:

http://slackerevolution.blogspot.com/2007/05/re-wire-your-brain.html

Have you ever wondered why the suicide rate in Ethiopia is almost zero? How bizarre. I recently stumbled on to this statistic and it just blew my mind. (No pun intended.) I can't help but wonder why it is that here, in America, the land of opportunity; people are killing themselves by the tens-of-thousands. Meanwhile on the other side of the world in a hopelessly desolate, hunger-stricken, 3rd world nation, manic-depressives do not exist.


Maybe it's not so surprising though. According to The National Institute of Mental Health's official website, an estimated 1 out of every 5 people in America have some type of diagnosable mental illness, ranging from manic-depressives to binge-eating to social anxiety disorder. An astonishing 2 million children in the U.S. are prescribed Ritalin for A.D.D or A.D.H.D. perhaps you know a few of these kids, I know several in my small town alone. So one must ask: Why are we so screwed up? Is it necessary for us to drug ourselves to solve this problem?


I believe that we are not born with mental illnesses like bulimia, depression, anorexia, binge-eating, or social anxiety. These illnesses develop over time as a result of specific behavior and thought patterns. These patterns may or may not be the direct result of environmental stimuli. Current research is implying that we have the power to heal our own mental afflictions. With a bit of self-control one could alter their behavior and thought patterns. We know this is within everyone's capabilities. The real surprise is what results from this could be a complete change in the chemical balance of neurons in the brain.


Here is a quick lesson in what we know about the human mind. More specifically, a brief explanation of how our thought patterns are formed and personality traits solidified.
After birth, the human brain is a fury of neural connections and brain cells migrating and repositioning. This occurs when our early minds respond to environmental stimuli or input. Neural pathways then become established throughout the brain. These neural pathways are the communication lines that our brains depend on for signaling responses to stimuli. Here is an example of that process: Our brains shift in response to environmental input, then further shift in response to the results from our own response. Each time we respond a specific neural pathway is used for that response. Each time we respond in the same manor, or the more frequently we use that neural pathway, the more engrained it becomes and the more easily that response can be triggered. Sometimes neural pathways can become so engrained that they can almost block higher level, more logical thought processes. The opposite effect occurs when neural pathways go unused for extended periods of time: a Darwinian process of elimination takes place where those unused connections are subsequently destroyed. This engraining and neural pruning is most active between the ages of two and ten. The result is a human brain whose wiring is for better or worse, completely unique.


Current research supports the idea that our neural pathways are not fixed or locked in. They can be altered even into adulthood. So why not try and rewire our own hardware? For example: Suppose you suffer from depression. Try to smile more often. This may sound like a stupid solution but those neural pathways that signal your facial muscles to smile are wired-in with the same neural pathways that signal feelings of happiness. A more effective solution is to force yourself into thinking positive thoughts in every situation, even if it's insincere. This positive thinking if consistently applied, will create a thought pattern that is more easily triggered. Eventually your pessimistic and negative thought patterns will subside.


Here of an example of an experience I've had with altering my own "wiring". A few years back, I struggled with a short attention span and a bad memory. It affected me mostly when I was reading. I would read a few pages and upon reflection, find that I had retained almost no information about what I had read. In order to correct this problem I decided to try this: I would only read a few sentences, maybe a small paragraph. I then would summarize to myself what I had just read. I would repeat this process for a few weeks gradually increasing the amount of material that I would read in-between my summaries. By the time that I finished my book, there was no need to summarize. The material I was reading, I was remembering. This is what happened: By pausing to reflect on my reading every few seconds, I forced those neural pathways associated with short-term memory to become more engrained and consequently, short-term memory was more easily triggered.


But why not just call the ol'doctor and pick up a prescription. I could have been easily diagnosed with A.D.D. But would Ritalin really fix the problem? Let me give you a little allegory:


One morning you wake up to find that your battery in your car is dead. You try to jump-start it several times unsuccessfully. Finally you conclude that the battery is no good and must be replaced. Problem solved right? The following week you awake to the same problem, dead battery, won't hold a charge. Once again you replace it with a new one. The following week the same problem occurs, so you decide to investigate. You discover that a ground wire under the hood has come loose. This is causing the batteries to short out. What would you do? Keep buying batteries every week? Or fix the root of the problem: the loose ground wire.


To you and I this seems like a no-brainer. You should fix the ground. However in the real world a similar situation is going on with anti-depressants, social anxiety medication, Ritalin and other prescription drugs. If I am depressed and prescribed some happy pill, then I'm only going to treat the symptoms of the real issue. Or in other words I'll just keep on buying a new battery every week.


Unlike my car scenario, the repercussions of taking medication are more severe. Dependency is likely. A sense of helplessness without medication is almost certain. Today's society would love to have you believing that you can't cure these problems or that depression is some disease and it's out of your hands. Bullshit! This type of psychiatric propaganda is what is wrong with our society! This is why 30,000 Americans kill themselves each year. Our society and culture puts way too much emphasis on happiness. The seemingly harmless idea that every individual has the right to pursue happiness has been twisted into a cultural obsession. Every day the prescription drug industry pushes insecurity on the general population. You've seen the ads on T.V. They want you to question your stability. They want you to question yourselves until you feel like something's wrong. Don't let your children grow up thinking they're helpless victims of there own emotions.


The truth is, we all feel sad, insecure, bad, negative, angry, but how you manage your emotions is your responsibility and not some pills. PARENTS! Teach you children how to control their emotions and feelings. When I see some 10-year-old kid on Ritalin looking like a zombie, I can't help but feel like this is just the by-product of parental laziness. How can we ever expect a young child to learn to cope with his emotional roller coaster, or his learning differences, if his issues are avoided? What a message to send your kid, 'hey son take this pill because something is wrong with your mind', and we then expect this kid to grow up feeling like he's normal. Granted there are some individual who do need medication for mental illness, but I believe the overwhelming majority of people need to stop treating symptoms with pills, and go after the cause of their problems.


"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then is not an act, but a habit."-Aristotle
 

Helyna

Well-known member
FANTASTIC article. This is why I keep telling people to do MORE than take medicine. Everyone on this site should read this.
Okay, I'm a bit overenthusiastic. But I really liked that (besides, the writer knew about SAD).
One thing I would add is that (I'd think) most people in Ethiopia have worse things to struggle against than themselves and probably feel that they've put too much into life to leave it voluntarily. Our problems come from our lazy, self-centered lifestyle that gives us too much time to think about ourselves.
 

Argamemnon

Well-known member
You're welcome. Please read this too guys!

Break Bad Habits: Rewire Your Brain in 14 Days

http://www.vistage.com/featured/break-bad-habits-rewire-your-brain-in-14-days.html

Break Bad Habits: Rewire Your Brain in 14 Days
There's that certain something that you do all the time that you know isn't good for you, but no matter how hard you try, you just can't reverse it. It might be that you procrastinate, overeat, control everything at work, skip out on exercise or chronically neglect relationships.

Whatever it is, it's not only affecting your health directly, but also indirectly, by causing you stress. Deep down, you know that promising yourself to change one more time just isn't going to do it. It's too late for that.

Or is it?

Dr. Lee Rice, Vistage speaker and authority in sports medicine, wellness, and preventative medicine, certainly doesn't think so. He believes that to improve your health, you first have to evaluate your life. "Only 10% of us die naturally from old age in our sleep," he says. "Another 10% die prematurely from bad luck. The rest of us -- all 80% -- will kill ourselves with bad habits."

Once your life is in balance, you'll experience reduced stress, muscle deterioration, and illness, and increased happiness, flexibility, and self-esteem -- not to mention a longer life potential.

But how exactly do you turn lifelong bad habits inside out? How do you get over the rationalization and justification that lead to small unhealthy decisions that rack up toward an increasingly unhealthy, unhappy-about-it you?

Dr. Rice says it takes as little as 14 days to "rewire your brain" or create new brain pathways that make habits easier to follow, so the habits become more effective and long-lasting. Will it be hard? Yes. But "the mind is much more powerful that we've ever given it credit for," he says. "Wellness is an integration of mind and body, and allowing yourself to change for the better" is the first step. But you have to be honest with yourself. If you define yourself prematurely, you won't be able to change the behavior.

How to Rewire Your Brain

Here's how to increase your ability to change:

Be rigorously honest with yourself. You can only make changes when you accept yourself as you are.

Acknowledge that you are who you choose to be, not who you were yesterday.

Know that it takes about 14 days to begin to form a lasting habit. Those first two to three weeks are the hardest, physically and emotionally. Give yourself the time.

Write the truth about why you haven't made changes and what changes are possible. Be honest. Take care to evaluate the way you use language. If you find yourself phrasing statements in the negative -- like "I can't" or "It's too hard" -- consider how to rephrase these statements as things you can do and that are easier for you to stick with.

List the life values most important to you, and explore your purpose in life. Do your habits align with these values and mission? If they don't, you'll likely experience stress.

Now write the story of who you want to be. The truth is, people have tremendous capability to change. Write down what it will take to get you to make those changes. What will success look and feel like? How will you measure successes along the way?

Write down how you might undermine these goals. What should you do to avoid these pitfalls? The most common are 1) rationalizing, 2) denial and 3) minimizing the truth.

Announce the changes you plan to make. Ask for the help and support you need from friends and family or from medical professionals. Your commitment will be much more powerful if you do.

After six weeks, recognize that you'll probably miss the benefits of your new habit if you stop.

Celebrate milestones along the way!

The Benefits

An added benefit to achieving your desired goals? "Your behaviors, your environment, and your mind can influence your genes," Dr. Rice says, "by affecting the proteins in your brain that turns those genes on and off." That's a powerful comment, considering that we have 30,000-100,000 genes (no one knows exactly), and seven chronic diseases have been mapped out genetically so far. He's suggesting that continuing to challenge yourself to learn new things (and avoiding substances that may "numb" your brain) will keep your brain sharp, and happiness and satisfaction can help ward off diseases, even if you are predisposed to them.

You can, if you want to pay about $60,000, get a personal gene map and find out if you are predisposed to any of those seven diseases. But it may be more rewarding to make practicing healthy behaviors a habit, something automatic that you don't even have to think about. Reach for that chocolate cupcake or third beer? Wouldn't think of it. Skip the daily 30-minute walk with a friend? That would be like not brushing my teeth all day.

Healthy habits can also influence you immediately. For example, your brain will have better recall and problem-solving skills after you exercise. So if you're facing a big problem, consider taking a walk or hitting the gym. But listen to your body -- if you are experiencing aches and pains, daytime sleepiness, or odd behavior, you may be pushing it too far.

Getting Over "Can't"

Dr. Rice tells his patients who have really hit a wall either emotionally or mentally, "If all you ever do is all you've ever done, then all you'll ever get is all you've ever got." It's a mouthful, but it makes sense. If you want a different outcome, you must make a break with the past. You have to be committed to succeed, just as you are with your business. Not just interested, but committed. You know you're truly committed when you do it even when it's not convenient.

Adopting new healthier habits takes research, planning, nurturing, fine-tuning, advice and counsel, support, execution, celebration when you reach goals, and starting over when things go awry, just like with a new project or business. What do you really want, and what are you willing to do to get there?
 

Avoidance

Active member
Great read.

The celebration when I reach my goals, is somthing I need to work on for my self. It just some times I compare my self to a normal person. As what I achieved is so easly done by the normal person I seem to just brush of the fact I did reach a goal.
 

Argamemnon

Well-known member
Avoidance said:
Great read.

The celebration when I reach my goals, is somthing I need to work on for my self. It just some times I compare my self to a normal person. As what I achieved is so easly done by the normal person I seem to just brush of the fact I did reach a goal.
I agree. In my case nothing I achieve is ever enough, so I actually choose to do nothing instead! And then feel more depressed.
 
"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then is not an act, but a habit."-Aristotle

One of the greatest quotes ever. Our thought patterns are a result of embedded habits over a lengthy period of time. Therefore, it is only through hard core repetition of good, healthy thoughts that we will start to lift the anxious and false thought patterns that tend to haunt us every day.

Habits are the essence of a person. That's why I think the book 7 Habits of Highly Effective People is such a great book. Give it a read, you won't regret it.
 

Argamemnon

Well-known member
youareimportant said:
Therefore, it is only through hard core repetition of good, healthy thoughts that we will start to lift the anxious and false thought patterns that tend to haunt us every day.
You can not have healthy and good thoughts if you're repeating your bad habits. I think the deeply ingrained self-destructive habits need to change first in order to think positively.. but to break those habits you also need to believe that it's possible in the first place. I think I'm confused :D
 

Helyna

Well-known member
Argamemnon said:
youareimportant said:
Therefore, it is only through hard core repetition of good, healthy thoughts that we will start to lift the anxious and false thought patterns that tend to haunt us every day.
You can not have healthy and good thoughts if you're repeating your bad habits. I think the deeply ingrained self-destructive habits need to change first in order to think positively.. but to break those habits you also need to believe that it's possible in the first place. I think I'm confused :D

My mom was badly depressed recently. She's much better now, but she said something interesting a few weeks ago: when you're depressed, you don't go to the doctor because you can't believe that anything will help you feel better.
Thing is, you have to do something.
So you're right. It's kind of no-win. :?
But I'll keep telling people here to get help. And to think positively.
 

chris420

Well-known member
Brilliant topic, I think mental habits play a huge part in maintaining SA. It's why there are no 'quick fixes' for SA...It's a long, hard road to reach new ways of thinking. I think this definitely applies to depression and possibly OCD as well.
 

caitlynx

Active member
Helyna said:
Argamemnon said:
youareimportant said:
Therefore, it is only through hard core repetition of good, healthy thoughts that we will start to lift the anxious and false thought patterns that tend to haunt us every day.
You can not have healthy and good thoughts if you're repeating your bad habits. I think the deeply ingrained self-destructive habits need to change first in order to think positively.. but to break those habits you also need to believe that it's possible in the first place. I think I'm confused :D

My mom was badly depressed recently. She's much better now, but she said something interesting a few weeks ago: when you're depressed, you don't go to the doctor because you can't believe that anything will help you feel better.
Thing is, you have to do something.
So you're right. It's kind of no-win. :?
But I'll keep telling people here to get help. And to think positively.

Yeah it's a total catch-22. During my worst years of depression, I couldn't bring myself to do basic things that would make me feel better, even though everyone prodded me to do them telling me they'd for sure make me feel better. At some point, there had to be enough momentum to make that transition to wanting to help myself. I couldn't have predicted when that transition would happen, but it eventually did.

So in the end..it's nearly impossible to convince someone right away to take a piece of advice, or to be positive. But it's important to still maintain that faith and hope that one day for everybody, there will be enough momentum to take steps to getting better.
 

bleach

Banned
This guy believes a fantasy if he really thinks the mental disorder statistics for a country like Ethiopia are in any way accurate.

It's difficult to even credit the statistics for a first-world country, because for many disorders there are a great number of people (majority?) which never seek help or are never diagnosed, or are diagnosed incorrectly, etc.

Yet he thinks he can definitely say that in Ethiopia "manic-depressives do not exist"... even though we know with a good amount of certainty that the disorder is caused by genetic factors that cause hormonal and neurotransmission problems. A positive outlook does not change your genes, sir. Nor do good habits or a good upbringing.
 

CK23

Well-known member
I think it never hurts to read some articles about positive thinking... we need to vent our feelings and talk about the negativity in our lives but at the same time if we dont focus on positivity we will only get better for a short while before the SA thing haunts us again...The only problem with SA is the social isolation that comes with it and the fact that you try to socialise but you fail... i recently replied to a topic ' I tried to reach out' and that clearly relates to what i just mentioned... Guys, it's like falling in hell, when you reach out despite all the anxiety and get the cold shoulder... It's like getting punched in the face just after you get up from a fall... It is just soo not easy... :(
 

duma

Active member
Nice article :)

Although, rewiring the brain/altering habits is easier said than done, one day you may feel up to it but the next day you cannot be bothered to challenge thinking or avoid habitual acts on top of all the anxious feelings I already feel. The hardest part for me is to consistently change my habitual behaviour when honestly its so much easier to resort back to the habit - where I feel comfortable.

If only there were an easier way to reprogram the way you think, its alot of hard work and very emotional, hypnotism may work although I have never tried it, has anyone else?
 
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