Opaline said: ↑Mmmmmmhmmmmmm
We both love rich southern-style food? 😛 Doesn't EVERYONE?
Those that don't obviously don't care for the finer things in life.
Those that don't obviously don't care for the finer things in life.
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Those that don't obviously don't care for the finer things in life.
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My college transfer orientation tomorrow is 8 hours 😮
Seems a bit excessive. Just a bit.
Seems a bit excessive. Just a bit.
I wish my mother would stop treating me like I'm a child. I'm 31 years old and she constantly babies me and doesn't feel like I'm capable of doing things on my own. It's ruining my health. Another thing she does is she's constantly hot and cold with me, one min she's loving and the next minute she's distant, cold and won't even want to talk to me. And she thinks this is normal behavior. It messes with my emotions. :crying:
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Opaline said: ↑My college transfer orientation tomorrow is 8 hours 😮
Seems a bit excessive. Just a bit.
Mine was a whole week. Time well spent. :thumbup:
I meant eating it, but add a little hot guy to the mix... even better! Gotta love the sexy sound of that can going FLLLLLUUrrrp 😠jc972 said: ↑Do elaborate please 😎
*Goes to store to buy all the whipped cream*
I hope it's one of those things where they are exaggerating how long it will take. Sounds like a long day!Opaline said: ↑My college transfer orientation tomorrow is 8 hours 😮
Seems a bit excessive. Just a bit.
My mother and I had a lot of issues, she used to push all my buttons to get what she wanted, play mind games, etc, but I had to step back, look at the relationship and re-analyze it.. give it new boundaries, and mourn for the relationship I thought we had and accept it for what it actually was. It's hard, and a person mourns for a bit, but sometimes it's the only way to continue to have a relationship without it getting toxic or constantly getting hurt feelings. I hope you can figure it all out.BlueWeepingRose said: ↑I wish my mother would stop treating me like I'm a child. I'm 31 years old and she constantly babies me and doesn't feel like I'm capable of doing things on my own. It's ruining my health. Another thing she does is she's constantly hot and cold with me, one min she's loving and the next minute she's distant, cold and won't even want to talk to me. And she thinks this is normal behavior. It messes with my emotions. :crying:
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Lavinialuna said: ↑I am so mad at my husband I could scream. Yesterday I went back to school shopping with him, his mother and the kids. It was a big deal for me (the anxiety thing) but I thought I could be helpful with sizes etc. We took 2 cars and were in a town about 15 miles from home. We were shopping at Target and they were in the check out. The 3 year old was getting squirrely so I said "I'm taking the boys to the car." I got the boys in the car but they never came out of the store. I waited and waited in the hot parking lot for 45 minutes with 2 little boys crying and complaining. I finally parked the car (I had been waiting at the door) and got the kids out of their seats, went to the service desk and asked to use the phone to call our cell... He is at Walmart in the neighboring city😮 Are you f-ing kidding me? He just left me there, no cell phone, no money, 1/8 a tank of gas in a hot parking lot with 2 kids? I was fuming. He claims that the plan was to meet there, but it most definitely was not. He had ridden there in my car, why would he suddenly change vehicles?
Why would he think a person with severe social anxiety would want to go ahead of the group alone with 2 little kids to a Walmart with no money? I seldom leave my house alone, much less attempt to shop alone.
I was in no mood to deal with him and so I got in the car and drove to our city and took the boys to the park (for fear that I would shank him with the nearest sharp object if I saw him while that mad.) I thought "let him wonder where I am for awhile, see if he likes it." So, I finally get home 2 hours later, mother in law still there (I didn't want her to see me upset) so I went to my room and locked the door and sat there for 3 hours. He got the silent treatment for 24 hours until a little bit ago when I told him off.
Here is the kicker- he's mad at me. WHAT? What a complete idiot.
I am a force to be reckoned with. I already moved his pillow and blanket downstairs.
I went to Walmart and bought myself a little phone of my own (despite the fact that I hate phones. I will NOT be dependent on him and him alone!) I shopped for the first time alone in, well, I don't know how long, and I just kept repeating in my mind "I am a *od *amn warrior!" It worked. Maybe this anger thing will work for me. I am sick of being afraid, dependent and needy. Screw it. I want to take care of myself.
That was probably really annoying, but I appreciate the vent.
I would have been so pissed that I wouldn't have spoken with him for a week! I remember not long ago I was invited out to eat dinner with this friend I had not seen in a long time. Day after day I could not go because of work. Well.. I finally met them at the end of the week on a Friday. I got there and for over 2 and a half hours I watched them play on their cell phone and they ended up saying less than 10 words to me the whole time. I was so pissed.. I told them straight out.. you can't stop messing with that phone long enough to even talk to me.. I don't know why you invited me out. I paid my check and left without saying goodbye. Later I was blamed for the whole thing.
shyflower said: ↑I would have been so pissed that I wouldn't have spoken with him for a week! I remember not long ago I was invited out to eat dinner with this friend I had not seen in a long time. Day after day I could not go because of work. Well.. I finally met them at the end of the week on a Friday. I got there and for over 2 and a half hours I watched them play on their cell phone and they ended up saying less than 10 words to me the whole time. I was so pissed.. I told them straight out.. you can't stop messing with that phone long enough to even talk to me.. I don't know why you invited me out. I paid my check and left without saying goodbye. Later I was blamed for the whole thing.
I hate it when people pretend to be social when they are actually just playing with their phones. I suppose they probably blamed you because it was easier to do that than admit they were being rude. People drive me mad!
It's so hard to constantly be let down by people, especially the ones you are supposed to be close to :sad:
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Lavinialuna said: ↑I hate it when people pretend to be social when they are actually just playing with their phones. I suppose they probably blamed you because it was easier to do that than admit they were being rude. People drive me mad!
It's so hard to constantly be let down by people, especially the ones you are supposed to be close to :sad:
I guess I always thought people who played on their phones were insecure.. I don't know.. but I sure couldn't figure it out because they were texting another friend and answering messages on both yahoo messanger and talking to people on a dating site..so I didn't see the purpose of my presence.
shyflower said: ↑I guess I always thought people who played on their phones were insecure.. I don't know.. but I sure couldn't figure it out because they were texting another friend and answering messages on both yahoo messanger and talking to people on a dating site..so I didn't see the purpose of my presence.
Part of what I love about being 40. Saw a couple friends this weekend, no one (except one of the girls husbands) were playing on their phones. We grew up without it, and know how to live without it!
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Opaline said: ↑My college transfer orientation tomorrow is 8 hours 😮
Seems a bit excessive. Just a bit.
We have transfer orientation days and several shifts are scheduled throughout the same day, in back-to-back rotations. Hopefully it's like that and only a couple of hours.
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The ice challenge is annoying. And it makes me thirsty.
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Lavinialuna said: ↑Part of what I love about being 40. Saw a couple friends this weekend, no one (except one of the girls husbands) were playing on their phones. We grew up without it, and know how to live without it!
I guess it doesn't work that way around me. I am a little older than your age and my friends are between 40 and 55 and they just can't stay off of those phones. I can put mine down all day and never look at it because it's just not an important part of my life
That is so weird because it does the same to me! 🤭dottie said: ↑The ice challenge is annoying. And it makes me thirsty.
I probably just got lucky that day! I know my older brother is addicted to his. I probably don't share their enthusiasm because I have a crappy pay as you go flip phone that doesn't do anything! Haha!shyflower said: ↑I guess it doesn't work that way around me. I am a little older than your age and my friends are between 40 and 55 and they just can't stay off of those phones. I can put mine down all day and never look at it because it's just not an important part of my life
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I cannot be on Pinterest when I am hungry-there's way to much food porn on there!
MollyBeGood said: ↑I cannot be on Pinterest when I am hungry-there's way to much food porn on there!
You referring to the creampie or the tossed salad? 😛
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I can't recall the last time I had a good creampie.
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In other news-- a question: How much could I get for a kidney?
I think my kidneys are still good...
... I need money.
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In other news-- a question: How much could I get for a kidney?
I think my kidneys are still good...
... I need money.
WeirdyMcGee said: ↑I can't recall the last time I had a good creampie.
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In other news-- a question: How much could I get for a kidney?
I think my kidneys are still good...
... I need money.
Trade it for a creampie. Duh. Lol 😛
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What did I walk in on lol
Deja Vu said: ↑What did I walk in on lol
We're talking food. Now do you want the Boston creampie or the tossed salad.
Somebody's mind is in the gutter lol 🙄
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Deja Vu said: ↑What did I walk in on lol
haha!
Adorable.
... and also why I never taught my grandparents how to use the internet.