rustyrus303
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ok, so here's another one i like.. can i sit with you so i won’t get hit on?
Openers to make friends or get a gf or bf
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Mickery
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Force yourself! You'll enjoy the response.
rustyrus303
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n do u have a light IS the easiest way to meet girls, or... do u wanna smoke some weed? 
but the opener doesn't even matter btw, asked questions n ****, but be aloof..!
but the opener doesn't even matter btw, asked questions n ****, but be aloof..!
I think you are right. We would, we do enjoy.
Often difficult for me is the process of focus, concentration on spoken words. A hearing comprehension inefficiency. So my smiles are often late and give way to discomfort.
Forcing and with understanding vs. forcing without understanding, can be easily determined by others. Understanding focus attaches with it serious expression(s).
I refuse to force a smile.
InfraRecon
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"Hi, I am socially nervous and sweating right now! Mate with me?"
Dj SL
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n do u have a light IS the easiest way to meet girls, or... do u wanna smoke some weed?
That's what I'm talking about!!!
Dj SL
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Hmm, Sauron would pleased to see another willing to follow.
LazyHermitCrab
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to make a friend: hey that coffee,cafe whatever looks good....lets go!
to get a gf: hey want to hangout sometime?
to get a bf: wait for the guy to ask and just flirt....by saying complinenets, etc
to get a gf: hey want to hangout sometime?
to get a bf: wait for the guy to ask and just flirt....by saying complinenets, etc
Tiercel
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If she's full of beans, we'll have a gas. Vegetables, and we'll watch a movie at home. Fruits, and I'll try to enjoy her sugary personality. I refuse to think of more corny puns right now, so consider yourselves lucky.
This particular opener leaves no sharp or jagged edges, so if things get sour between us there won't be any scars.
WeirdyMcGee
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Well... I could tell you what not to do, since I tend to do that quite well?
HeadFace
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Advice:
Don't "search" for your love (boyfriend or girlfriend, in this case). They will show up at one point or another.
Anyway.. If only it were as simple as saying a line or two. I have too much anxiety, I'm too frightened that they might think I'm coming off as desperate or creepy. I also don't want to feel like I'm annoying them or boring them, and I don't want to come off as rude or flirtaticous to the point where I AM desperate and creepy.
Don't "search" for your love (boyfriend or girlfriend, in this case). They will show up at one point or another.
Anyway.. If only it were as simple as saying a line or two. I have too much anxiety, I'm too frightened that they might think I'm coming off as desperate or creepy. I also don't want to feel like I'm annoying them or boring them, and I don't want to come off as rude or flirtaticous to the point where I AM desperate and creepy.
Dj SL
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you're right love will find you, but if you do these strategies, you will improve your social skills; also, you will feel more confident
Dj SL
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umm meaning? are u extrovert or introvert? is there another disorder you have or only social phobia?