Only shy when it comes to love

[i a]

Hello everyone (first post)

Anyone only shy when it comes to love? I can talk to some people. I can even approach sometimes. It's hard and I get nervous but I can do it.

If the talk is 'safe' then I am good. Safe is stuff I could talk to anyone. Safe is everyday and boring.

If the talk is 'risky' then I get scared. Risky is talk of love and liking someone. I can't do it. I distance myself both physically and mentally. I go away. I change the subject. I stop talking.

Anyone relate?

Thanks for reading!

i a

Iovita Avelina

 

[Liam17]

Hello everyone (first post)

Anyone only shy when it comes to love? I can talk to some people. I can even approach sometimes. It's hard and I get nervous but I can do it.

If the talk is 'safe' then I am good. Safe is stuff I could talk to anyone. Safe is everyday and boring.

If the talk is 'risky' then I get scared. Risky is talk of love and liking someone. I can't do it. I distance myself both physically and mentally. I go away. I change the subject. I stop talking.

Anyone relate?

Thanks for reading!

i a

Iovita Avelina

I can relate to that, i get shy when people ask who you like etc.
I also hate being the centre of attention when you get asked.
If i was with a girl i like, just me and her, it wouldn't be that bad. I could probably tell her.

 

[JamesSmith]

I've always had a severe problem with making the first move with women. Even when I'm not trying to get a g/f I'm just as bad with talking to women. I've been in groups with women around and I just shut down and don't say a word. All of the sudden, my mind is blank and I have nothing to say.